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User Topic: Lda Horizons
Lucyy
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Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What is this?

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confused615
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Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

IIRC, it is a name some porn companies use when they bill your CC. Instead of it saying " or "pornstarz.com" it says LDA Horizons.

They say they do it for privacy reasons.

I found several EPOCH charges on our credit card. I questioned WH..he had no idea. So I did some research and found out it was an online porn site.

It's sneaky. It's crap.

[This message edited by confused615 at 2:53 PM, October 14th (Monday)]


BS(me)41
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,9
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Happily Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7120 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
Lucyy
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Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sex lines? Or porn sites?

Sad I can't confront because I shouldn't of seen the bank statement . It was laying on the table and I just happened to look at it.


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confused615
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Default  Posted: 5:21 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It could be either..the sites or the porn.

There should be transparency in a relationship. You didn't do anything wrong..and it absolutely ok for you to ask him.

BUT...the best thing to do would be to go into stealth mode...spyware on his phone and a keylogger on his computer. Then you will find out what's going on...if you ask him it will tip him off and he will get sneakier.


BS(me)41
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,9
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Happily Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7120 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
Chicky
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Default  Posted: 5:45 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sad I can't confront because I shouldn't of seen the bank statement .

Gently, that it complete and utter bullshit. You are partners and as stated above there should be total transparency. Besides, a person who has nothing to hide, hides nothing.


Half of the truth is a WHOLE lie.

Posts: 521 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: Somewhere Over The Rainbow
Lucyy
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Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel I'm sneaking enough. We do not have a computer we only have our mobiles. I would feel terrible approaching him and tell him I'm snooping.

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