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User Topic: Ears are ringing
FeelingMN
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just played i hate myself for lovin you for the last hour at volume=11. Teaching myself guitar makes me smile.


Me 41
fWW 37
DD(19), DS(17), DD(11) (Mine, hers, ours)
Together 14y, Married 12
DDay Aug 2010, 4 mos TT & gaslighting
ONS + EA after 15yr Class reunion out of state

Posts: 252 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Minnesota
unfound
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

therapy comes in many forms.

Joan Jett rocks.. and so do you

[This message edited by unfound at 7:59 PM, October 14th (Monday)]


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

Posts: 14823 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
FeelingMN
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Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is the best I've felt all week and I seriously can't hear shit.


Me 41
fWW 37
DD(19), DS(17), DD(11) (Mine, hers, ours)
Together 14y, Married 12
DDay Aug 2010, 4 mos TT & gaslighting
ONS + EA after 15yr Class reunion out of state

Posts: 252 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Minnesota
unfound
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Default  Posted: 8:09 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Huh? What???


Glad it's helping

[This message edited by unfound at 8:09 PM, October 14th (Monday)]


ka-mai
*******************
From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

Posts: 14823 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
FeelingMN
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Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Exactly! The family will be home soon so I'll have to pretend to be able to hear them. I'll just nod my head alot and say "Oh yeah? That's nice"


Me 41
fWW 37
DD(19), DS(17), DD(11) (Mine, hers, ours)
Together 14y, Married 12
DDay Aug 2010, 4 mos TT & gaslighting
ONS + EA after 15yr Class reunion out of state

Posts: 252 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Minnesota
HeartInADustpan
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Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

volume=11

"Nigel: Well, it's one louder, isn't it? It's not ten. You see, most blokes, you know, will be playing at ten. You're on ten here, all the way up, all the way up, all the way up, you're on ten on your guitar. Where can you go from there? Where?

Marty: I don't know.

Nigel: Nowhere. Exactly. What we do is, if we need that extra push over the cliff, you know what we do?

Marty: Put it up to eleven.

Nigel: Eleven. Exactly. One louder."

I'm laughing so hard right now.


Just call me Heart. :)
Reconciling
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything" ~Mark Twain

Posts: 379 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 10:25 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll just nod my head alot and say "Oh yeah? That's nice"

^i do that now anyway...


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1280 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 11:13 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll have to pretend to be able to hear them.

This is an important skill to develop for later in life, I've found. Just sayin'....


fBH (me) - 65+, fWW (her) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9773 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
welcome14
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Default  Posted: 8:27 AM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

At my Nana and Grandy's 50th anniversary party, the Pastor asked Nana what the secret to a long marriage was. She said "hearing loss", and Grandy said..."what?".....
so maybe you will benefit from it?? And i love Joan Jett...


Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.


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