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Jrazz
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Wink  Posted: 2:01 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DD3 has an army of Disney princess dolls.
They are about 4" tall, and we are CONSTANTLY changing their dresses as well as listening to them have tea parties, dance parties,
bicker, rescue each other from dragons etc.
There is exactly ONE prince doll available in this collection.

This morning, DD is hollering from her room: "MAMA!! Please come put Rapunzel in the wedding dress!
She's getting married!!!" (That particular dress is a tacky polymer that is really hard to slide on and off)

So I head in, she hands me the doll and the dress, and I start tugging.
Then I notice that she's holding Belle and Prince Charming and they are "smooching."
Immediately I see that a life lesson needs to be taught here, as PC is making out with Belle right in front bride-to-be-Rapunzel!!

Me in ALLLL my wisdom: "Honey, it's not nice that Prince Charming is smooching Belle in front of Rapunzel."

Vrazz: "But he loves her, mama."

Me: "But then why is he marrying Rapunzel? If he's marrying one girl he should not be smooching another. It's not nice at all."

Vrazz (Keep in mind this is a 3yo): "Um, Rapunzel is marrying Snow White, mom."

She then gestures to Snow White, waiting patiently on the piano for her bride.
Tiana is apparently the officiant and there is a stuffed pug and a teacup witnessing.

Me: "Wow. You are absolutely right honey. I'm sorry."


We should really pay more attention to the way children view the world.
So much more kindness and truth and peace than the mess we adults make out of things.

**Smacks head and joins the 21st century**


(Edited because the page parameters got stretched.)

[This message edited by Jrazz at 5:44 PM, October 15th (Tuesday)]


If you can't learn to enjoy your life when you have problems, you may never enjoy it because we'll always have problems. - Joyce Meyer

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awww. Congratulations to the happy couple.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 2:21 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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Exit Wounds
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Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Where is MY wedding invitation?!

Posts: 2483 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: With my dad...and my dog...
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're all invited. In lieu of gifts the princesses ask that you make a donation to the Bibbety Bobbety Boutique.


If you can't learn to enjoy your life when you have problems, you may never enjoy it because we'll always have problems. - Joyce Meyer

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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

THAT is FREAKING AWESOME!!!!

LOL

What a fun kid.
Enjoy her... She will be 14 before you know, and they don't particularly care for their parents then....


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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She11ybeanz
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Cool  Posted: 2:53 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She then gestures to Snow White, waiting patiently on the piano for her bride. Tiana is apparently the officiant and there is a stuffed pug and a teacup witnessing.

Me: "Wow. You are absolutely right honey. I'm sorry."


We should really pay more attention to the way children view the world. So much more kindness and truth and peace than the mess we adults make out of things.

**Smacks head and joins the 21st century**

You're all invited. In lieu of gifts the princesses ask that you make a donation to the Bibbety Bobbety Boutique.

My daughter is 14 months old and I CAN'T WAIT for this stage now!!!!

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 2:53 PM, October 15th (Tuesday)]


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You should get the little snap-on clicky dresses instead of the rubbery ones. They are SO much easier to get on and off. I may or may not enjoy playing with them more than Baby Green does.

It feels so SUBVERSIVE to put Snow White's iconic dress on another princess. I generally dislike princess crap but even looking at this freaking picture is making me want to go play with Baby G's dolls. Too bad I'm at work.

[This message edited by JanaGreen at 3:38 PM, October 15th (Tuesday)]


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

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Default  Posted: 3:40 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

To cute. I miss those days. And they are so correct if you just take the time to listen.
If we adults were still in that mindset the world would be a much better place.


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jana! We are transitioning to the snap on ones but there are no snap on wedding dresses as of yet. I want to kiss who ever invented the click on ones. Makes life much easier in our home.


If you can't learn to enjoy your life when you have problems, you may never enjoy it because we'll always have problems. - Joyce Meyer

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JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's the little things, I know.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 3:58 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As adorable as baby Razz and baby Green are, I'm so glad I had a boy. No dresses to change on dolls. Instead, my son could spend hours playing with a cardboard box. We had an appliance delivered one time and he thought he'd hit the lotto of cardboard boxes

[This message edited by lieshurt at 3:59 PM, October 15th (Tuesday)]


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


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Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's a modern woman you a raising there!

You think Rapunzel will take Snow's last name? Is she Rapunzel White now? Or maybe Snow will take the lead from Rapunzel and shed the family name and just be "Snow" from now on?


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

t/j What mental midget designed those stupid rubbery dresses for those stupid rubbery dolls!?!?

I was so excited when I found the princess dolls that are hard plastic and you squeeze the dress and plop princess down. Done. Easy enough for a 3yo to do by themselves!

End t/j

Love the wedding story. Life is so simple with the young, innocents. We could learn a lot from watching children.


Indian wisdom says our lives are rivers. We are born somewhere small and quiet and we move toward a place we cannot see, but only imagine. From Tending Roses

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Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Should have read all the responses before I posted. They DO have a snappy wedding dress! We have it! Can't remember which princess it came with though.


Indian wisdom says our lives are rivers. We are born somewhere small and quiet and we move toward a place we cannot see, but only imagine. From Tending Roses

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JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Girls like cardboard boxes too. And superheroes, and cars, and getting dirty.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Crazz and I were giddy when we found the snap on kind. We would be pulling those plastic ones on and off for hours.


If you can't learn to enjoy your life when you have problems, you may never enjoy it because we'll always have problems. - Joyce Meyer

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click4it
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

love it.


Me: 41
Two boys: 17 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 2:58 AM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG that is so precious! Congratulations to Snow White and Rapunzel, the happy new couple!!!


Find peace. Or sleep on it.

Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.


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Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 3:16 AM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Excuse me? Snap on dresses?
Where were those when my tea was interrupted 42 times?


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

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