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User Topic: My observations about SI posters
Tripletrouble
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Member # 39169
Default  Posted: 4:11 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We cross all demographics. Appearance is meaningless. We span the globe. We are compassionate - offering hope, advice, kindness, and understanding to people we've never met. We are resilient - weather facing R or facing D, they both require the courage of lions. We are funny - even in the throes of heartache, I get a good laugh almost every time I read here. We are pretty stinkin awesome. So thanks SI community, you are the best 41,000 friends I could ask for

This is my positive thought for the week. I'll be back tomorrow, crying and frustrated


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


Posts: 616 | Registered: May 2013
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree. We have an amazing group of members here.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 4:13 PM, October 15th (Tuesday)]


Posts: 33872 | Registered: Mar 2011
Faithful w/Love
♀ Member
Member # 33128
Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

Posts: 2653 | Registered: Aug 2011
Thefly559
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Member # 40268
Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ditto. And ditto to the last part too


"what does not kill you , makes you stronger"

Posts: 610 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: nyc
Deeply Scared
♀ Administrator
Member # 2
Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Without a doubt we have the very best members out there!! Compassionate, smart, loving, funny and some of the most colorful words I've ever read

We (Staff) appreciate each and every one of you!!

I've said it over and over in the past...but it's true.

My mother always said a party is only as good as the people that show up.

Well, look around...we are surrounded by great people


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 196472 | Registered: May 2002
SurelyNOT
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Member # 40617
Default  Posted: 4:35 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOVE your Post. Can completely relate to everything you said.
Here's hoping tomorrow is a good day for all of us, and the next, and the next ... ... It's an uphill battle with many twists, turns and stumbling blocks - and it sure is a journey I never anticipated. Good luck to us ALL

Posts: 95 | Registered: Sep 2013
simplydevastated
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Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 5:07 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fantastic post! They're are a lot of amazing people here.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5828 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
fourever
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Member # 30631
Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Indeed!


In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.

Always, tell the other BS! Always!

"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!


Posts: 873 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Northeast
AFrayedKnot
♂ Member
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2527 | Registered: Aug 2012
TheAmazingWondertwin
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Member # 40769
Default  Posted: 5:21 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this post and thank you for saying it.
Knowing I have a place to come that's full of honest good wishes and the occasional 2 x 4 ( also given with good wishes).
Word cannot express my gratitude for ALL of you.
(((SI community)))


Everyday is a new day, some good, some bad.
Me- BS 39
Him- FWS
14 years- 2 middle school children
DDay- 07-24-2013
NC broken from August 6- 24, 2013
Avalanche of Truth on November 14, 2013
Length of A: June 10th to Dday- with broken NC

Posts: 470 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: East Coast
LA44
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Member # 38384
Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love your post TT!


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2109 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
SoVerySadNow
♀ Member
Member # 36711
Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good post. I totally agree!


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1280 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
neverdidithink
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Member # 40568
Default  Posted: 6:06 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great post, TT!

While I'd certainly rather have met you all under different circumstances, I'm so very grateful to have found such a warm, welcoming community. That so many people in so much pain can be this compassionate is truly amazing.

My eternal gratitude to all who share here and to the founders and mods who make this place so special. I hope you understand what a difference you've made in so many lives.


Me: BW 52
Him: WH 55
Married 8 years
4 20-something his and hers kids

Trying to understand the behavior of some people is like trying to smell the color 9


Posts: 276 | Registered: Sep 2013
solus sto
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Member # 30989
Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This really is a terrific community.


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 8326 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
Skan
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Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 7:56 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hear Hear!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4585 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Williesmom
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Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep. Such a wonderful group.

I'm sorry for our circumstances, but so glad to have this group to support me.

I didn't find SI until after my D was final, but I really didn't begin to take control of my destiny until I came here.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7427 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
surviving1963
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Member # 40393
Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So grateful to each and every one of you. Your stories, courage, feelings, advice, etc. etc. are an inspiration


Me: 50
WH: 50 pro cake-eater, NPD, SA
Married 33 years
D-Days 3-4-12, 8-19-12 (EA, probably PA)porn,ashleymadison, etc, etc
4 sons, 3 daughters
8 grandkids
Divorcing - finally

Posts: 105 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Utah
nowiknow23
♀ Guide
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24434 | Registered: Aug 2011
FaithFool
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Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh hell yeah.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17147 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
thecosmogirl
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Member # 39707
Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful post!!!
I'm no where near where I want to be but I am that much closer because of this place :-))


Me: BS
Him: doesn't matter anymore...or does it...

Being very, very careful

D-day 14 June 2013


I'm smart, good looking and gosh darn it, people like me!


Posts: 155 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: trying to figure it out
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