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User Topic: There are good times
HeartInADustpan
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Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Since my posts have been so...ummm...depressive lately, I thought I'd share something really fun KB and I did over the weekend. We made a cake. Doesn't look the greatest, but it was a labor of love. I guess like our M now. It sure isn't perfect, but with time, practice and a lot of work it'll get better.

Edit for me forgetting to link right.

[This message edited by HeartInADustpan at 8:46 AM, October 16th (Wednesday)]


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Kelany
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Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's an awesome cake!!! My cakes always look like they should be on cake wrecks, lol


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DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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PinkJeepLady
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Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sweet! (literally!)
What a great idea to make a cake together and I think it looks fabulous!
Thanks for sharing!


Me: BW-54. Him-FWH 54. DDay June 1st 2012 cheating with prostitutes overseas
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"Not everything that counts is counted. Not everything that is counted counts." Albert Einstein

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dameia
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think it looks great! What a fun idea.


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D-Day: 7/7/12

One should rather die than be betrayed. There is no deceit in death. It delivers precisely what it has promised. Betrayal, though ... betrayal is the willful slaughter of hope. ~Steven Deitz


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are you kidding me? That looks amazing! Yay for good times.


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-Hayley Williams


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LA44
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Default  Posted: 10:49 AM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well done! I would not say no to that cake!


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He: 47 WH
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D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2211 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is honestly one of the coolest looking cakes I've ever seen! Nicely done!!

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Skan
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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That cake is a true Treasure!


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 4:58 PM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, Heart. You're still in my thoughts for needing some good times, but I'm really happy to hear life has some ups for you.


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catlover50
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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a cool thing to do together!

And it's a great-looking cake!



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iwillNOT
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Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now THAT is an awesome piece of teamwork


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Him: WH, 44
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Married 14 years
Kiddos 2,6,8,10
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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DixieD
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Default  Posted: 9:44 PM, October 16th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome cake!

Nice work, Heart and KB.

My husband and I love cakewrecks and have joked about trying one of our own. I'm sure ours would be a cakewreck but it would be a lot of fun trying.


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