A question has been on my mind for a long time and I'm finally going to just ask it.
My hope is that one of you moderators will move it for me?
I wanted to ask BS and WS a trigger question . I'm trying to figure out how to have communication we have to have be smoother and go past more quickly.
But the X is pushing his affair at myself and our daughter and insists on talking about things that are triggers for me. He gets very angry if I can't listen to something about his "new life" that he is dragging out into the public eye. Why does he not understand the pain it is to me? Searing, scorching, endless pain?
Why does he feel that I need to know these things?
Why can't he understand?
His new theme is that, "If I knew about his new life, it and OW wouldn't be strange."
No. Absolutely not.
And he and OW are the only one that think this.
I didn't know if anyone has experienced this and would be grateful for any ideas. It's terrible to keep hearing.
The only thing that stays the same, is change. -M. Etheridge