Yes, first of all.
But...doesn't having resentment keep us in that box of spending time on the A, in it's own way?
It's another negative thought to bring us down and it's definitely one place I'm stuck in, too. But I don't want the resentment anymore, I don't want any more thoughts of him, period.
I will say that one of my fiercest resentments is the time I spent loving a man who no longer loved me, who was so awful and insulting to me, but who didn't even tell me. I feel like that part held me longer than some of the other things, like digging for information and things.Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess