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User Topic: OW's obituary - Vent
TrustGone
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Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It breaks my heart that the OW gets so much riff from the BS. Speaking from the OW perspective, it is very very painful
.

Oliviah...What did you expect by posting in the General forum on the SI website? Do you really think the BS's should feel sorry for you and the mess you put yourself into by hooking up with a married man? Did you ever once think of the BS and what this would do to her, her marriage, her family, her whole world?

I at first felt sorry for the OW of my WH#2. She outed the A to me after 2yrs because she was mad that my WH#2 lied to her and went on vacation with me "his wife". He lead her on for 2yrs and even gave her an engagement ring to shut her up. She thought that by outing the A, I would leave him or he would leave me. It didn't happen, so she foolishly continued the A for another year and then left me a note in MY jewlery box. Again she thought that she could destroy my marriage and my love for my WH#2, because he was so in LUVVVVE with her. He wasn't and never had been. It was purely for the sex and he used her for what she had turned herself into.

Hopefully, you will see this for what it was. He used you, period!!! You were both living in a fantasy world if you thought you could do this and have no consequences and no one would get hurt when it came to light. If you want sympathy there are other website forums for OW like you. I have seen them and read some of the posts just like yours. I may be wrong but I don't see that the wayward forum would help you alot since it is for wayward spouses trying to understand how they could do what they did and fix it with their BS. Hopefully this experience has taught you that involving yourself in someone elses marriage not only hurts you, but alot of other innocent people and that you strive to not get involved like this again. Hardly any of those type relationships work out even if the WS leaves their wife/husband for the AP. You only saw the fun, loving, happy, sexual, etc..WH. You did not see the true person and their brokeness. I would suggest that you get some IC and figure out what was/is broken in you to accept kibbles from a married man. I am sorry you are hurting but you brought this on yourself and you are the only one that can fix it now, by yourself.

As for the obit, I could really care less if the OW in our sitch lives or dies and would not lower myself to post anything on it. She has someone higher than me to answer to for what she did and she has to live with herself everyday which in my opinion is Karma at it's finest.


BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
TrustGone
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Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry double post.

[This message edited by TrustGone at 9:17 AM, October 17th (Thursday)]


BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
Deeply Scared
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Red  Posted: 9:08 AM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Trust...

I flagged the thread on the first page, I realize you were probably writing your reply and didn't see it.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 196573 | Registered: May 2002
TrustGone
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Default  Posted: 9:19 AM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No sorry, I did not and I apoligize for that.


BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:20 AM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's ok...I figured you didn't see it...no harm


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 196573 | Registered: May 2002
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

TC died October 17, 2013. TC is not survived by any loved ones. TC did not reproduce, which the world is a better place for.

However, TC did leave behind a legacy of many who despise TC. TC was married twice, divorced twice, as the husbands did not support

TC's generosity. TC was very generous to many men, even whilst married, as TC generously spread its legs to any man

foolish enough to yield to its charity. TC was involved in two non-profit charities. These charities gave TC more men to

share its generosity with. Although not loved by these men, many will miss the easy access. In lieu of flowers, it is asked

that you generously donate to SurvivingInfidelity.com in the name of all BS's. Watch out hell, here comes your queen.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9423 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
MrsDoubtfire
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Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ho worker.

Died under a cloud. Suffocated on spermatozoa whilst performing oral sex to her hundredth married man.

Friends of hers said... well... Nothing. She had none!

The MM whose spermatozoa she died drinking said.... well... Nothing. On account of him dying of several STI's caught from Ho worker.

Her family said.... well... Nothing. They disowned her calling her deluded and they always denied ever raising a glitter shitting unicorn - claiming every member of their family bar her KNEW the were just horses who shat horse shit

The vicar said .... Well.... Nothing as she had a paupers funeral.

Satan said.... well... " Well, well. Welcome to purgatory you evil woman. Tormented others in your lifetime. Now let me torment you for the rest of eternity!"


BS(Me) FWH(Him) DDay 05.09
A went underground. True R 02.10
I won't let another woman reap the benefit of enjoying the man my H has now becomeć

Posts: 1563 | Registered: Jul 2009
mchercheur
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Default  Posted: 11:52 AM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MrsDoubtfire! You made me choke on my lunch laughing!

Died under a cloud. Suffocated on spermatozoa whilst performing oral sex to her hundredth married man.

Friends of hers said... well... Nothing. She had none!


It's somthing how so many OW have no friends. I wonder why.


together 25 yrs, married 24 yrs, 4 children;Rebuilding
D Day: 5/10/2011 PA
OW: WH's co-worker,divorced, no children, 20 yrs younger than I-----& she knew he was married, had met our kids, but that did not stop her from trying to destroy our family

Posts: 1337 | Registered: Dec 2012
Lovedyoumore
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, thank you mods for taking care of the WW postings. It took a little while to recover from reading it. My blood pressure is back down and I think my eyes are salvageable.

Back to topic...
Hagrid the Whorrible
Born,no spawned: late 70's
Died: too late
Cause: no heart
Preceded in death by her integrity and her morals

Survivors: Her clueless, enabling mother.
Her doting minister father who raised her to be a real daddy's girl with no conscience in getting everything her little mind desired.
Never married, no children.
At least one adulterer partner and his betrayed wife

She will be remembered for her selfish, self loving personality that never passed up a chance to hurt, maim, bully, or use others. She aggressively campaigned for her favorite political figures, yet never registered to vote. She tirelessly marched for others rights and justice while inflicting her own brand of oppression and injustice on those she stepped on.

She leaves behind a cat, a nasty house, torn sheets, a bullet vibrator(purchased by said (adulterer)and a hard stiff dildo.

Donations are not being requested due to lack of conduit to her favorite charity: herself

RIT. Rest In Torment

[This message edited by Lovedyoumore at 1:19 PM, October 17th (Thursday)]


Me 52
WH 52
Married 30+ years
Together trying to R

I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.


Posts: 1405 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Southern, bless your heart
Marathonwaseasy
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Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ow will die alone
She has already alienated one of her children. It's only a matter of time before she does the same with the others. She has no friends. She's a total psychopath so will not feel any of the pain I do right now no matter what I say. Despite this I fantasise about hurting her
I will settle for her dying in agony
I fantasise about being the one inflicting the pain

She won't get an obit as there will be nobody to give a shit enough to write one


Me BS, 41
Him WS, 45
EA and PA (PA for 11 months)
DDay 13/9/13
3 children - 15,12,3
WS has bipolar, no excuse...

"We're not broken, just bent. We can learn to love again."


Posts: 421 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Ireland
MrsDoubtfire
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Default  Posted: 1:09 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MrsDoubtfire! You made me choke on my lunch laughing!

S'funny. That's sort of how I imagined OW demise to be..... Choking.... On her 'lunch!'


BS(Me) FWH(Him) DDay 05.09
A went underground. True R 02.10
I won't let another woman reap the benefit of enjoying the man my H has now becomeć

Posts: 1563 | Registered: Jul 2009
LadyLove
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Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I kinda had the opposite happen.. MOW's BS killed himself 7 mos after DD & NC. I don't believe he ever knew of his WS's A. She played the grieving widow to a "T". You may think her grief was genuine but how about the fact that less than 48 hours after he took his life she Facebooked me with a message to give to my WS that her BS is no longer with us? WTF? If she was so grief stricken why is she trying to get a message to my WS? My WS never even met her BS. They had a less than 4 month affair... Shows who she was thinking of.. Sicko... I sooo wanted to post something derogatory in the online obituary guestbook about her.. But he has kids.. so I let it go.

[This message edited by LadyLove at 3:21 PM, October 17th (Thursday)]


BW - 46 (me)
WH - 48 Ladyslove
Don't know if I can live with it.

Posts: 77 | Registered: Sep 2013
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 3:11 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The last OW before I left:

Died Sunday morning of extreme complications due to a lifetime of anorexia/bulimia, OW. She has swallowed her last laxative and barfed up her last huge steak dinner with cheesecake. She will be remembered (not necessarily fondly)by patrons of (a local restaurant) who for the past ten years have had to ignore her retching in the bathroom, her long-term fuck-buddy with whom she has cheated on every man she had a serious relationship with, her poor now-husband and little girl who probably have no idea of the depths to which wifie/mummy can sink, and her manicurist who has lost her best I-even-chew-my-fake-nails customer.

Donations may be made to any and all organ charities, since her eating disorders ruined all her own.

[This message edited by lynnm1947 at 3:12 PM, October 17th (Thursday)]


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7135 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
scared&stronger
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Default  Posted: 6:11 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW Whoragatang Slutisous lost her battle with struggling to be human 10-17-13. She leaves to mourn her life her bathroom mirror, bedroom mirror, camera, facebook, twitter and instagraim.

She received her BA at the University of Headuptheass, her MA at the University if F*ck'emover and her PhD in Pretzel Gymnastics with a concentration in Whothebabydaddy.

She opened her private practice in 1986 with her partner 1st husband. She moved her practice in the summer of 1991 with 2nd husband. As she continued to grow her brood she acquired a new partner in husband #3. In the 2005 she cultivated her newest partner Mr. S&S.

She had an accident that she struggled to recover from in 2007 when she ran into a brick wall at the corner of Scared&Stronger and GonnaMessYouUp. The accident just increased her determination to expand her practice.

While she worked hard at being the best in her field, ultimately it is what took her life. Most people die instantly without a heart she was able to make that piece of coal that was 2 sizes too small work for years.

Ultimately, she won't be missed, thought of or even used as fertilizer...too damn toxic. Send all tokens of sympathy to the OLE HOES HOME...poles have to be kept up.

[This message edited by scared&stronger at 6:28 PM, October 17th (Thursday)]


WS 45
BS 43

Met when we were 17 and 15. Together since 1983, married since 1985. Two kids, B21, G15.

d-day 4-3-07

Life has a way of making us get our panties in a wad.....I refuse to wear panties ever again.


Posts: 3956 | Registered: Aug 2007
EasyDoesIt
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Default  Posted: 6:21 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AWESOME thread. I'm trying to decide if I like the Y-shaped coffin bit or the obits that immediately precede this post.

ROFLMAO

(and grateful for the mods who have saved the day once again)


Anything less than full disclosure and total transparency is pure bullshit. WARNING! No emotional pollution allowed.

Posts: 3688 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: Georgia
I think I can
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Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here's mine.

"Nobody died on Wednesday, March 7."


I'm not the winner, I'm the prize.

Posts: 8793 | Registered: Jan 2008
Pass
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Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"A slut, who was willing to spread her legs for money or power. Had no problem with targeting married men, & couldn't care less what it did to their wives & children."

That would be the perfect obit for my wife.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1724 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
mchercheur
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Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((pass)))
I am so sorry.
I have kids the same age as yours, & WH & I were separated for half a year after Dday , before we started trying to R.

Sending you strength.


together 25 yrs, married 24 yrs, 4 children;Rebuilding
D Day: 5/10/2011 PA
OW: WH's co-worker,divorced, no children, 20 yrs younger than I-----& she knew he was married, had met our kids, but that did not stop her from trying to destroy our family

Posts: 1337 | Registered: Dec 2012
Girlietoo
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A part of me wishes that I could vent about what a whore my WS's OW was- but she isn't. The meanest I can come up with is naive, inconsiderate woman-child with Daddy issues:/

Dumb, maybe I can get away with dumb?

And my WS is such an ass.


Me- 40
Him- 47
March 9, 2013- the day my heart died

Posts: 237 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Canada
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, October 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Enjoying all these obits!


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


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