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Marathonwaseasy
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Default  Posted: 1:17 AM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

5 weeks post dday. No time
I suddenly don't waken and get kicked with remembering as if it was the first time. I just feel bone crushingly sad
He is remorseful. He is trying to get his shit together. NC was immediate. TT was limited. The fog has gone. He is more committed to me than ever and being the man he once was for the first time since his breakdown in 2006.
I know this is just likely to be another stage. Necessary in my healing
But it is overwhelming. I don't want to do anything at all.


Me BS, 41
Him WS, 45
EA and PA (PA for 11 months)
DDay 13/9/13
3 children - 15,12,3
WS has bipolar, no excuse...

"We're not broken, just bent. We can learn to love again."


Posts: 421 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Ireland
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 5:12 AM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Marathonwaseasy)))


BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2628 | Registered: Aug 2012
OldCow18
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Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I went through that earlier on also, I was terrified I was sinking into a depression I would never emerge from. Like, I wanted to pull the shades and stay in bed all day every day and could not muster the motivation to do anything at all. For me it was just another phase. I hope you feel better soon.


Me, BW forty something, DD & DS,
Married to WH (49) 11 years, together 16
D-Day 6.8.13

Posts: 620 | Registered: Jun 2013
Drowninginitall
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Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs. I'm sorry. I know the overwhelming pain.

Posts: 107 | Registered: Oct 2013
Skan
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Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, I called it the Lethal Plain of Flatness. It's a totally grey place. Eventually, you will get yourself out of it, but it will come and go for some time. (((hugs)))


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:25 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Marathonwaseasy)))

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