I would give ANYTHING to have my WH do a ONS instead of the 18 month EA/PA he had with his ex-girlfriend, the one he use to refer to "as the love of his life."
In answer to the anger, I wish I knew. I've never been this angry before, I actually attacked him and punched him (don't remember, blacked out.) It seems to be getting worse. You are SOOOOOO lucky that you had a good M before ONS. And that he told you, all I've had is TT and continue to get TT. I know there is MUCH more to learn and if I did learn the whole truth, I'd be gone.
So realize there are levels of betrayal and deception and you're on the top of the shit pile! I think you're going to be just fine, keep writing, don't suppress your anger, beat a pillow, go to the gym and sweat it out. But get it out!
Best of luck to you!WH 56
BS 54 -- Me!
LTA EA/PA 1-1/2 years.
D-Day 8-12, 2nd D-Day 9-13, 3rd D-Day 10-13 4th D-Day 10-14. 5th D-Day 10-31-13
Married 15 yrs, together 19.
MC & IC has been a JOKE.
Tried to reconcile for 6 months, I couldn't get past the pai