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User Topic: America!! Talk about a NB!!
nolight
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Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've just found out that I am 90% likely to be sent to America for six months for work next year!

So excited, as I love the states

When good things like this happen I look back to the dark days and think I wish I could go back and tell my "then" self that there is a light after all!


Posts: 462 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Hawaii
phmh
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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fantastic! Crossing my fingers that it all works out!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


Posts: 3266 | Registered: Dec 2011
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holy cats! That's one heck of a NB.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24394 | Registered: Aug 2011
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 7:05 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How exciting!! A big change of scenery can be such a wonderful thing! If you happen to be in Northern CA I'd be happy to PM tips and tricks


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16339 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you come to Virginia, let me know! I could be your redheaded tour guide! hehe I'm a pretty savy Southerner!

Congrats! How exciting is that!!???


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2710 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
Grace and Flowers
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As soon as you know where you might be, let us know. You will be FLOODED with invitations, suggestions for food, recreation, sightseeing, etc. I'd love it if the same thing happened and I got sent to Oz!


I'm Happy, not Sad!

Posts: 1148 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: US
persevere
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Default  Posted: 12:30 AM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so excited for you! But it makes me consider my frame of reference because I think the opportunity to work in Australia for a while would. Be amazing too!


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4374 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
better4me
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Default  Posted: 12:35 PM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!
When good things like this happen I look back to the dark days and think I wish I could go back and tell my "then" self that there is a light after all!
One of the exercises I did a year or so after DDay was to write a letter to the DDay me about how life was better a year after the devastation. A "It gets better" letter. It was a good thing to do...


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

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