Topic: My parents
Member # 19772
| Posted: 1:11 AM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013|
Left a shitty VM telling me and sibling we should consider ourselves orphans. That is weird, right?
BW, divorced: 03/09
Posts: 14184 | Registered: Jun 2008
Member # 31349
| Posted: 1:16 AM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013|
Really weird. Any backstory at all? Are they the types where if you're not exactly like them then you're the devil?
Me: BW 34
Crazz: FWH 32
For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot
Posts: 12281 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 31528
| Posted: 10:23 AM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013|
There are still good times to be had.
Were together 7+yrs, Ended R.
Posts: 26421 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 33226
| Posted: 10:29 AM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013|
That is weird, especially if it's out of the blue with no context.
Anything going on with them right now, like health concerns or an estrangement?
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“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 19223 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: "Is this heaven?" ;-)
Member # 26531
| Posted: 4:13 PM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013|
Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Posts: 23095 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Member # 31240
| Posted: 6:17 PM, October 20th (Sunday), 2013|
How old are they? Any chance someone is preying on them?
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FBH (me) - 65+, FWW (her) - 65+, Married 40+
DDay - 12/2010
2.5 years out, feeling human again, and feeling good, bad, indifferent at different times
Posts: 7502 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Member # 40753
| Posted: 7:09 PM, October 20th (Sunday), 2013|
Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW: 22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head
Posts: 206 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma
Member # 17460
| Posted: 9:17 AM, October 21st (Monday), 2013|
That's all the message said?
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 30 - Yikes!
Posts: 20546 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Member # 23138
| Posted: 5:50 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013|
Where did this come from? Has your relationship with them been strained?
DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
Me BH: 36
Posts: 2772 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Inside your computer.
Member # 17637
| Posted: 7:41 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013|
How old are they? Are they on any medications? Some medications react very differently in older people. If it is from them both though, I would wonder if someone has not developed an unhealthy influence over them.
I have seen it happen.
Posts: 482 | Registered: Jan 2008
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