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Weatherly
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((williesmom)))))))

Do you have any family to spend the holidays with? I know it isn't the same, I just hope you won't be alone.

[This message edited by Weatherly at 12:12 PM, October 21st (Monday)]


Me-29,Two boys, 10 and 8

It will all be ok in the end. If it's not ok, it's not the end

Happily remarried to a wonderful man (Aussie). I think I found the right guy and the right finger this time.


Posts: 4485 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: Indiana
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, all.

I do have family in the area, but they're all nurses. We usually end up celebrating holidays on a date that isn't the actual holiday. I also have a platonic friend that always invites me to spend the holidays with his family, but I'm trying not to encourage him.

It's not that I don't have joy(I definitely do). I just feel like I would like to share that joy with someone else.

I'm trying very hard to not become the crazy cat lady!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7648 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
better4me
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Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Williesmom)))


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3130 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm trying very hard to not become the crazy cat lady!

This meme needs to die.

I think it belittles women who choose to live alone.

We don't apply this image to solo males do we? If there is one, I haven't heard it.

Mad dog maybe?


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17392 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
LearningToRun
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Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Im dating a crazy cat guy, so it happens.

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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm trying very hard to not become the crazy cat lady!

well that's understandable, seeing as you're already the crazy about corgis lady.

I know it's so, so very hard when we would like our lives to be one way, but for some reason we're not headed in the direction we thought we would be by this point in our journey. We have to have hope, and believe it will get better, and we will get the life we want. hugs again, (((Williesmom))).


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Williesmom))

I SO feel you sweetie. I've been single now a year and a half.... and the most I've had is 3 1st dates....no 2nds. It is what it is I guess. I know I have a lot to offer someone... and I know that someone would be super lucky to have Piper and I....but I also know that dating as a single mom is not easy.....and sucks....and is exhausting.... so I fully expect to spend yet another Christmas alone.

It saddens me if I let it.... but I refuse to. I'm running my 3rd marathon this weekend and I'm excited! My last one was ruined by sperm donor who decided "out of the blue" that he wanted to run a marathon since I ran one....so he roped me into running another one not 6 months after my 1st....(I wasn't really mentally ready to....and had an awful race). But, this time.... I AM ready.... and I'm excited.... and nervous.... and its going to be great! I just know it!

We will be part of a family dynamic again one day! I have a great family.... just no man in the mix... but I am trying to be patient...

But, I know its not easy.... for sure...


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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