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User Topic: Vacation contact
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 1:36 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm on vacation. I'm seeing friends and family that have been nothing short of fantastic through my ordeal. Last night I got a series of text messages regarding the football game that was on. I don't know if STBX was drunk, lonely or what. I ignored them. In fact my friend took away my phone. This morning I sent her an email about open enrollment at her job and her progress in her attempt to refinance the house. Keeping it all business. She is on the fence about keeping me on her policy. I told her just until the divorce, then she can drop me. It's the first time I've used the "D" word in contact with her. It's always been "when the time comes" or referred to as "the pending legal proceedings". Felt good. Hope it shook her. I hope she leaves me alone the rest of the week. I was perfectly at peace floating on my noodle until she contacted.


D Day: 6/13/13
Moving on. Every Single Day.

Posts: 493 | Registered: Jul 2013
Pass
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was a long time before using that word too. Felt great. I don't know if she gave a shit.

Enjoy your noodle!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 10 and 13
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1354 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey pass,

Check out my other post today!


D Day: 6/13/13
Moving on. Every Single Day.

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