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User Topic: Am I reading too much into FB post
heartbroken0903
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Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I swear, people can't own their own shit to save their lives.

Seriously, what she said. ^

You are not responsible for his choices to act like an ass, just as he was not responsible for YOUR choices to act like one. Everyone is responsible for themselves.

Good luck with your discussion with him...I hope it goes well.


Me: WS, 30s
XH: BS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

Reconciling after divorce

"Someday you'll look back on all these days
And all this pain is gonna be invisible." - Hunter Hayes, "Invisible"


Posts: 2080 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I swear, people can't own their own shit to save their lives.

So frustratingly true!


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16447 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 6:21 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It really, REALLY, pisses me off. "had you not fucked someone, I wouldn't be forced to go and do the same shit" - is how it sounds/reads to me. As if one has anything to do with the other. It's no different than my exH saying "had you not made me angry, I wouldn't have been forced to haul off and choke the shit out of you". Yeah, sure, it's ME not your anger issues. Get the fuck out of here with that bullshit.


FWW - 40
I'm big on personal responsibility. Own your shit. ALL OF IT.

Posts: 5767 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
topperoff22
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Default  Posted: 9:44 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

topperoff22,
BSs are free to post in the wayward forum on non stop-sign posts.

Good to know! I just didn't want to make an error. ;-)


BS - Me 36
WS - Him 35 (almost 36)
Child: son, 6; just learned one on way
DDAY - July 24, 2013 (thousands spent on ex girlfriend)
DDAY2 -Aug. 3, 2013 (proof he slept with her)
R is slow going after TT for 1 month

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