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User Topic: texting to reconcile
morethantrying
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Default  Posted: 12:24 AM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do you text a lot with WH?

he texts me during the day (my request) and it feels great...those little hearts and smiles...even without words...he was thinking of me....hold on to it...one day at a time, yes, compared to first days, weeks months...inching along

[This message edited by morethantrying at 12:25 AM, October 22nd (Tuesday)]


Affairs - hard on us both - but love will win.
Me: BS 55
Him: WS 62
Married 32 yrs.
dday TT from 12/2012-2/2013)...

Posts: 305 | Registered: Sep 2013
TheAmazingWondertwin
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Default  Posted: 5:24 AM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Texting has definitely become our connection. We are both at new jobs and having those texts come through durin the day really help. And mine has gotten really good at the long , thoughtful texts. Sometimes right when I need it.
It helps to know that he is thinking if me and takes the time to write meaningful things,or just "hey there" and a winky face.


Everyday is a new day, some good, some bad.
Me- BS 39
Him- FWS
14 years- 2 middle school children
DDay- 07-24-2013
NC broken from August 6- 24, 2013
Avalanche of Truth on November 14, 2013
Length of A: June 10th to Dday- with broken NC

Posts: 474 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: East Coast
Marathonwaseasy
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Default  Posted: 5:43 AM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

texting is a big help right now for me too

although he texted OW a lot so it's a trigger sometimes

the usual infidelity/R two feelings at once rollercoaster


Me BS, 41
Him WS, 45
EA and PA (PA for 11 months)
DDay 13/9/13
3 children - 15,12,3
WS has bipolar, no excuse...

"We're not broken, just bent. We can learn to love again."


Posts: 421 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Ireland
PrincessPeach06
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Default  Posted: 6:12 AM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We text a ton also but learned we have to be careful as it can hurt too!! One time I was joking around and he took it serious and ugh! We try and keep it light - no sarcasm. LOL

I love when I get messages saying "love you and thinking of you". :)


Me (BS): 35
Him (fWS): 36
Married 16 years 6 kids ages 15-6
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013

Finally this is R 8/14/13

"Forgiving is a journey; the deeper the wound, the longer the journey".


Posts: 299 | Registered: Jun 2013
morethantrying
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Default  Posted: 7:24 AM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes! Always two feelings---and sometimes more!


Affairs - hard on us both - but love will win.
Me: BS 55
Him: WS 62
Married 32 yrs.
dday TT from 12/2012-2/2013)...

Posts: 305 | Registered: Sep 2013
mellie99
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Default  Posted: 9:05 AM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Texting has been good for us as well; for some reason phone conversations always start out poorly and then turn into marathon sessions. As I'm still working on controlling my emotions in certain situations it's good for me to not always have those audio cues.


Me: BW (32)
Him: WS (31)-Multiple ONS
Married: 1/3/05 Together since 5/2002
D-Day #1-3/2009 (4 years after the fact)
D-Day #2 3/2013(he confessed to 3 more ONS, 1 the month I found out I was pregnant)

Posts: 66 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: United States
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