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User Topic: IC says emotional abuse
maddmurph
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Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

At the very least that I an answering like a person who has been.


Me - BS, 33
Her - WW, 33
DS 7, DD 3

Posts: 129 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: OH
topperoff22
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Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah....I was too.....


BS - Me 36
WS - Him 35 (almost 36)
Child: son, 6; just learned one on way
DDAY - July 24, 2013 (thousands spent on ex girlfriend)
DDAY2 -Aug. 3, 2013 (proof he slept with her)
R is slow going after TT for 1 month

Posts: 316 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: US
topperoff22
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On my phone but wanted to add this has horrified my WH and part of the reason he is in IC is because he wants help. His mom abused him. The emotional abuse from him was not our whole marriage.


BS - Me 36
WS - Him 35 (almost 36)
Child: son, 6; just learned one on way
DDAY - July 24, 2013 (thousands spent on ex girlfriend)
DDAY2 -Aug. 3, 2013 (proof he slept with her)
R is slow going after TT for 1 month

Posts: 316 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: US
Lonelygirl10
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, my IC says the same thing. I wasn't receptive to that opinion. She described the cycle to me though where he gets distant, I beg, I explode, he apologizes, and then the honeymoon time before he gets distant again. I don't think emotional abuse is always intentional though. I think that someone's personality flaws can cause them to unintentionally emotionally abuse someone.


29 Bgf
Dday: April 2013
Relationship ended: January 2014

Posts: 1050 | Registered: Jul 2013
maddmurph
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Member # 40940
Default  Posted: 7:17 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't think it's intentional. I'm not even sure she knows she is doing it. But that's one more thing for me to work through.


Me - BS, 33
Her - WW, 33
DS 7, DD 3

Posts: 129 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: OH
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