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Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

UGH!! My FWH and the whore used the juvenile "xoxo" in their correspondence. I swear they revert to being 12 year olds.

I am so sorry that you're dealing with this. It ripped my heart out when I saw the texts with the moronic xo's. As others have said, she's most likely cheating.

BS - 62
FWH - 60
Married 34 years
D-Day 2/12/12
Doing well with R

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Default  Posted: 3:59 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, I believe your wife is having a PA.

Just wanted to add a comment about *proof*.

I gathered much evidence, not for legal reasons but so I could determine what was lies when I was later told them; when he went off to the gas lighting, TTing fantasy land of the typical cheating fool.
I don't know if this was a 'good' idea but it means, even now, when crap falls out of his mouth I can say (and do), " I call bullshit on that. Try again."
It helps me that he knows that I know when he's lying...meh...

There are dark shadows on the earth, but its lights are stronger in the contrast.
Charles Dickens

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Default  Posted: 1:58 PM, October 24th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had someone try to do something similar as this with me recently, who is married, and found out I'm divorcing. For a time I electronically chatted back, but he would steer the conversation to places I thought were inappropriate for a married person. I would stop contact and he would try again.

Oh, it was never actual talk of physical stuff, but flirty and going back down memory lane to times when we were physical. I wondered if it was leading up to something like your wife was doing.

I finally tested it out and asked him, "does your wife know that you write to me?" He said yes, but you know what? he hasn't written back!

Yes, I agree on the signatures unfortunately and find that people get hugely juvenile during affairs-OW in the case of XPervert actually puts flashy hearts on her social network pages with him on looks ridiculous for "grown ups".

I'm sorry for your hard time, limbo, but glad you're thinking. Time to watch, time to plan.

Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington

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