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User Topic: 6th year anniversary
Simple
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Default  Posted: 5:36 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We just had our 13th year wedding anniversary (we've been together 17 years). I found myself silently count that it's our 6th year instead because I feel like that the "real" marriage started when we decided to R. In a way I'm glad I think it's our "6th year wedding anniversary" instead of our "6th year since A was revealed" which I used to count it as. Love, life, and forgiveness is definitely possible after A. I actually feel my marriage is even better than ever. That all that pain and trouble to R was worth it.

Just want to share. Hugs to all of you working on R.

[This message edited by Simple at 5:37 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday)]


Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Simple)))




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AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love your perspective. Thank you for the hope.


BS 39
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A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better. Reconciled from the A's but still working hard for a better tomorrow.
"Knowing is half the battle"

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Simple!


For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot

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