Recovery is building a pyramid of inference from which to climb and see clearer, and heavy usage of the reflexive loop.
I listen to my "gut," but it's just a yellow flag, i.e. trust but verify. My gut warns me that I had that feeling in the past, but that's not a guarantee it's happening in the present.
It's more like a miraculous balance of head, heart, gut, groin. The trick is not to let one of the 4 rule my life.
[This message edited by ladies_first at 5:23 PM, October 23rd (Wednesday)]
i agree with the other posted...i would snoop..and snoop until you find something. if there is something there...you will eventually find it. i think a lot of times, our gut tells us something IS there, but we are too afraid to snoop. but in the end, finding the truth is the only thing that will bring you peace.
dont ignore your gut. do what you have to do to find out. and dont believe him...no way...he wont tell you the truth...especially about cheating.
the heart is a fool...