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User Topic: t/j "you need to forgive him"
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, October 24th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One of my former co-workers was aware of the affair, and she saw the things that my wxh did to try to make things right with me.

One day, she said "when are you going to forgive him?".

Well, at that time, we happened to be on a bus tour. I spent 4 hours giving her the history of everything that happened during his affairs.

After that 4 hours, she said "I hate him for you - NOW, I understand".

So, I think the only people that really know what happened in a marriage are the 2 people in the marriage - sometimes, both of them don't even know what's going on.

Trust yourself, people. Trust your gut.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7428 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Bobbi_sue
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Default  Posted: 9:19 AM, October 24th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I say everybody has to live their own life and make their own decision, whether to forive or not, and everything in between. But for me, if what he did is so bad that I can't forgive after months and years, then for me a Divorce would be the best option.


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, October 24th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep. I'm not so much into forgiveness after everything that happened, even though I'm normally a very forgiving person.

Perception is everything, and once I adjusted my friend's perception - she could see more clearly what a jagoff he was.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7428 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
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