Confused's post just about sums it up for me.
I didn't miss sex after my D -- it was actually better solo than with him. Selfish people, i.e. cheaters, make selfish lovers, and I didn't know any better since he was my first!
I've only dated one guy since, but the sex was amazing, and after we broke up, I missed sex a lot. About a month after the last time, though, I realized I wasn't missing it as much as before. Which is good, as I don't know how much longer I could have handled it if the desire hadn't gone away!Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo