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User Topic: Genius strikes again!
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, October 24th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If some of you recall from previous posts, XPOS has been hounding me with ridiculous demands for me to send him things that he feels still "belong" to him. Well, part of the demands include that I ship, immediately, three ATVs, at my expense...

A brief background. He received the three ATVs in the settlement (I didn't care and would rather have the house!). However, when he was still playing "nice" he told me (via phone and text) as well as the kids that he was giving two of them to the kids outright and the other one our youngest DD could use as long as she wanted and he would get it whenever she no longer wanted to use (which will be, um, never). So the ATVs have stayed "housed" in the marital home with me because of that. Then he started with the demands, seeming to forget what he told everyone and was suggesting that I was withholding them from him. I have given him absolute crickets to all his "demands." If he really wants them, he can travel 4,000 miles and get them, I really don't care as it will be the kids he will be screwing over if he does.

Today, I find out that he is telling DS20, who is trying to get something in writing from XPOS saying he is giving him one of the ATVs (he's afraid his dad will back out later and claim theft or something, seriously), that I am refusing to send the titles for the ATVs to him so he can transfer them over to the kids (the initial two, anyway). Yes, at the same time he is demanding I ship them to him.

Well, being the law enforcement genius that he is, I wonder how long it will take for him to remember that they don't issue titles for ATVs in this state???? Until then, he will continue to make me out the bad guy (though DS knows better) based on, um, absolutely nothing!

[This message edited by Phoenix1 at 8:54 PM, October 24th (Thursday)]


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


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Heal&Deal
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Default  Posted: 12:04 AM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow. Well at least it seems that DS20 has his dad pegged.

Kudos to you for maintaining NC. Crickets is the best response.


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stronger08
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Default  Posted: 6:53 AM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you got the house in the settlement and he put in a quit claim on the deed. I see no reason why he should not be paying fees for storing HIS ATV's on YOUR property. I suggest you respond to his demands with the following:

If ATV's are not removed from my property by (insert date) a monthly storage fee per vehicle of (insert outrageous amount) will start to be incurred the day following above mentioned date. Failure to respond will result in the assumption that you have abandoned said vehicles and ownership will convert to the property owner. Thank you and have a nice day.

That out to piss him off. And depending on what's written in the decree and the state you live in may very well have some legal legs to stand on.


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 7:09 AM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like stronger's suggestion.


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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 11:30 AM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If ATV's are not removed from my property by (insert date) a monthly storage fee per vehicle of (insert outrageous amount) will start to be incurred the day following above mentioned date. Failure to respond will result in the assumption that you have abandoned said vehicles and ownership will convert to the property owner. Thank you and have a nice day.
Love it!!


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Married 4, together 7yrs total
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