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User Topic: Ramping up the cray-cray
tesla
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Default  Posted: 7:20 AM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oy. First the distraction...then the main event:

So this week he keeps pushing for stripper whore to start picking up Teslet from school. He also didn't excercise his Tues/Thurs extra parenting time this week. We don't have school today, so I offer to watch Teslet until he is available. Nope, he's sending stripper whore over at pick-up time. I text him that if he's had a change in schedule that I don't mind working out a different visitation schedule so Teslet gets quality time with both parents. Nope, he texts back that he's sending stripper-whore over at the pick-up time. I tell him that if we disagree about the visitation schedule that it reverts to the state standard. He says the guidelines say it's fall break and he should have Teslet now.

Okay, no problem. We'll do the state standard here on out. Send your stripper whore over to pick him up. Any switches we had scheduled are off and since the guidelines are pretty clear, I won't be keeping a google calendar. Oh, by the way, Friday visitation now starts at 6. There will be no extra parenting time scheduled. And if you want to burn off your 48 Teslet hours every other week by having stripper whore take care of him while you work or sleep, so be it.

So, yesterday, while all this tit-for-tat was going on, my lawyer emails me saying that she was reviewing my case and while ex-shat had sent in his 2012 tax return, he never sent in proof of deposits that he claims he made. She asks if I wouldn't mind texting him requesting that he forward these to her as soon as possible.

I gots no problem doing that.
Here is his response to that request:

How am I being sued for money that your lawyer can't prove wasn't paid? I have to use the work printer so I'll make an extra copy tonight when I come back to work. I'll bring it with me to the courthouse. Of course, since I paid all that money to our joint account you should have records of it all. I believe I paid you X or Y grand, plus child support. More than twice what you claim you are owed. I sure hope you lose cause I need that money to pay my grandmothers lot rent with. But good luck anyway.

Anyone care to poke that pile of shit with a logic stick? Oh, and the money to the joint account he's talking about? That money was paid from Feb 2012 - Sept 2012. Our divorce was finalized November 2012, where in the decree, it is specified that he pays me half of his 2012 tax return.
And then there is the text messages from earlier this spring where he acknowledges that he owes me this money and that he will pay me in full.

I forwarded that gem to my lawyer. Judging from the response she sent back to me, I'm guessing she feels like she's going fishing with a great big ole gun and all the fish are stuffed in a barrel.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4619 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 7:33 AM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Tesla Honey,

It must feel like you are cheating dealing with this level of dumb.

He just doesn't seem to understand.....I'm still going with the lead paint theory.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8433 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:44 AM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm going with the jagoff theory. He is one.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7638 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 8:46 AM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What is wrong with him? Wait, don't answer that. I do wonder if your attorney has stopped charging you as she gets entertainment value out of all of his cray-cray.


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1751 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How the hell does he remember to breathe on his own?! What an idiot.


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

Posts: 867 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I do wonder if your attorney has stopped charging you as she gets entertainment value out of all of his cray-cray.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9637 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 10:23 AM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry Tesla, tried to poke the pile of shit with the logic stick but it broke

Well done for standing up for yourself and setting boundaries regarding visitation.

Unfortunately you just cant fix stupid, especially when it is reinforced by entitlement


Me: Awesome - 35

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


Posts: 725 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 2:54 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cray-cray is right. He doesn't know whether he's coming or going. I can't wait to read when you post that he gets his arse handed to him in court.

And way to father, ex-shat. I can't wait until that crap starts with my ex-- letting the Owife get more involved because he's too *fill in the blank with whatever lame, "I'm a crappy parent" excuse he gives.*

To the dads on this board who actually care about their kids and want to spend time with them: You are awesome, and your kids are lucky to have you!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3596 | Registered: Oct 2011
persevere
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Default  Posted: 3:05 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Of course, since I paid all that money to our joint account you should have records of it all.

Okay, so now it's YOUR responsibility to locate these mystery deposits?

Oh, what an idiot....

And, yes, I think you're doing the right thing with the visitation - this is not Burger King - he doesn't get it all his way.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4513 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
SBB
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Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How am I being sued for money that your lawyer can't prove wasn't paid?

Are you serious? C'mon tesla - you made this up so I would laugh until I had tears running down my legs, didn't you????

I think his defence is going to be "Nar ne ne nar nar."



I CANNOT imagine doing a handover with one of his whores. Do you actually have to relent to that? Seems to me this would strengthen his case for her to do school pickups. In doing this he isn't giving you FRR now, is he?

It is a shame that he can't reciprocate flexibility - I don't think you have any other choice but to revert to state-standard. That is unless of course you want to bend to all of his demands....

I remember when you and I were posting about how oddly 'nice' the douches were being and I told you I was expecting some major fuckery coming our way. Well, here it is. I haven't seen it from the sad clown just yet. Watch this space.

How are you coping with this circus? Are you OK? I'd be wildly irritated but I think I'd also be sad that he was being a giant arsehole again. I much prefer it when he's being invisible.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5554 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
twinkie
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Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There must be stupid pills that these idiots are taking!! I was in last minute mediation with my idiot on an issue that HIS lawyer brought up when MY lawyer found $6000.00 more community property and HE was pissed!! The judge simply told him that he opened that door! Trust me Tesla the look on your Ex's face will be priceless!!

Posts: 1049 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Louisiana
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How am I being sued for money that your lawyer can't prove wasn't paid?

OMG

As someone once said, "I'm surprised he can wipe his own ass, this guy."


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 7

Posts: 2231 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Y'all know why God made urine yellow and semen white?

So Tesla's Exshat would know if he was coming or going.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2726 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Y'all know why God made urine yellow and semen white?
So Tesla's Exshat would know if he was coming or going.
ROFLMAO!!!!!

OMG! That she-it is FUNNY!


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - ??

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

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Posts: 6440 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
SBB
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Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Y'all know why God made urine yellow and semen white?
So Tesla's Exshat would know if he was coming or going.

Stop, my bladder!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5554 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
tesla
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Default  Posted: 10:26 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Y'all know why God made urine yellow and semen white?
So Tesla's Exshat would know if he was coming or going.

OHMYGOD!!!! I can't stop laughing!!!!!!!
The next time I see that fool (which could possibly be in court) I'm going to bust out laughing. Oh god, too fucking funny.

SBB - by reverting to the state standards...there is no school pick-ups for either moron. It makes my life much easier. No switching, no helping him out. I'm done. FTG.

Could I have turned stripper-whore away when she showed up today...yep, sure could have. But that fool may think twice before sending his whore over because I invited her in while I was getting Teslet's shoes on. Handed her a paper with my name and number, told her if she was ever running late to let me know. Sympathetically told her that I know she's probably doing most of Teslet's childcare (people, her reaction told me everything I needed to know...she feels burdened and unacknowledged for her efforts) and that if there was ever an emergency with Teslet and she couldn't get ahold of ex-shat (I know this happened with the OC) that she could feel free to call me, I wouldn't mind.

It pisses me off that ex-shat dumps my son off on her. It pisses me off that he's making her come out here...how long is she really going to enjoy being the team player? Ultimately, I want my son treated well and she's the one caring for my son over there.

And you know what Teslet said when I told him that stripper-whore was picking him up? "I want dad to pick me up, why can't dad pick me up?"
Yeah, ex-shat...way to show me who's boss. You sort of won your little power struggle at the mere cost of your son's sense of trust and security in you.

One sweet little thing:
Teslet knows my cell number. So, I randomly told him this morning that whenever he wasn't with me and he wanted to call me, he could because he knew my number.
He says, "But they (ex-shat) won't let me call."
I said, well maybe they are busy and don't have time. But if you keep asking nicely, eventually they will.

At 4:30 this afternoon, guess who called me to tell me that one of his toys over there was broken and that he loved me

Ultimately, that is all that fucking matters.

May ex-shat fall off the face of the earth and leave me the fuck alone after he gets his ass spanked in court on Tuesday. Wish you all could be here to witness his epic fail.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4619 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
newlysingle
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Default  Posted: 12:30 AM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We can't be there, but we can't wait for the update on Tuesday!


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

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SBB
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Default  Posted: 12:36 AM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ultimately, that is all that fucking matters.

Amen mamma, amen.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5554 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
lifestoshort
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

why on earth is it ok for the girl to pick up your kid? I would never ever allow this.


6/07 EX had several Emotional/sexual A
FALSE Reconciles. cheats again. D 5/09
2013- 10 month marriage &D to friend. he was a lyin, freeloadn biploar mess.
NOW? Living my life and loving it.


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Feeling Consumed
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Default  Posted: 7:47 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh. What a spot to be in having to communicate with stripper-whore, but I definitely see why you have to. I can't imagine how hard that has to be. I think if I ever was in the same room with bitchwad, I would tear her face off. Kudos to you for not only displaying such reserve, but for always taking the higher road!

Ex-shat just never disappoints us in our belief that he is one of the most stupid fucking morons on the planet. Well, sounds like his idiocrisy screwed himself up royally this time.

Again, kudos for that high road travelling!! You had to go so high up this time, I'm surprised you didn't get a nosebleed!


Spent half my life with an Ahole
D final!!! 11-11

"Obladi oblada life goes on...."


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