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User Topic: My first race tomorrow
Bikingguy
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Default  Posted: 8:29 AM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tomorrow is my first triathlon. It is a very short race, but I wanted to just get one out of way instead of thinking about one for months. I have only been swimming for a few months so that part scares me a bit. Once that is out of the way I can relax, as per my user name the bike part will be a piece of cake, and running is OK.

But sadly the A is never far from my mind. Right before D day in January, OM and I had discussed doing tri's together and I spend 1/2 day helping him pick out a bike. Did not see him name on the start list, so unless he is a day of registration I should be free to "enjoy" the physical suffering all by myself.


Me: BH, 44
Her: WW, 43
D day. January 12, 2013

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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good Luck, be proud for doing it. The swimming is quite honestly the only part of one that I could do well at.
Congrats.


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Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:56 AM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck! That is awesome! Please let us know how you do.

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HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck tomorrow Bikingguy. Let us know how it goes.


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foundoutlater
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Default  Posted: 5:38 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You rock - good luck!


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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 6:10 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Get out there and kick some major ass! You got this, Bikingguy. Best of luck to you.

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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have fun


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LA44
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Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! That takes a lot of commitment even before the race begins. Well done Bg!

All the best tomorrow.


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Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
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hurting2much
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck!!


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Tripletrouble
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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!! So excited for you to do this empowering event! I was scheduled for my first sprint tri just weeks after D day and I was crushed when it was cancelled due to weather. Hoping 2014 is my year. Go bikingguy!!


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