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User Topic: I got kissed today!!
gypsybird87
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Content  Posted: 7:01 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I went out on a late morning coffee/breakfast date today with a guy I met online. I thought I'd be nervous but I wasn't at all. I just knew from talking with him that it would be okay no matter how it turned out.

It was really nice. Good meal, hot coffee, 2+ hours of non-stop conversation and then an hour of walking around and more conversation. Finally a goodbye kiss that was perfect. Not a longgg kiss, not a quick peck either. It's silly I guess but I'm thrilled that XWH is no longer the last person I kissed!

We texted pleasantly after. Guessing I'll see him again... I'm leaving the ball in his court and honestly fine with whatever happens (or doesn't happen) next. I confirmed today that I don't want and am not ready for anything serious, but some fun dates and a little smooching is definitely okay with me.

So glad to have turned another page in my new beginning! Whether this turns into "something", or becomes a friendship, or is just a one time great morning I spent with a nice guy, I'm so glad I went!

ETA: He just texted and asked me out for tomorrow night.

[This message edited by gypsybird87 at 7:37 PM, October 25th (Friday)]


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin


Posts: 915 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That first kiss post divorce is pretty sweet! Yeay for you!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3612 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yah! Enjoy your second date


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1360 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad it was a great time!


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4205 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Pass
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's great, gypsy! I'm glad it was so good for you.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


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curiouswiz
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Default  Posted: 6:17 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A kiss! I want a kiss! I want a hug! Yes please.

I'm so happy for you gypsybird! Have a wonderful time on your date!

[This message edited by curiouswiz at 6:18 AM, October 27th (Sunday)]


God bless us, everyone.

Posts: 633 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Boston
Blackhair
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Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We are all happy and cheering here for this "First" kiss, it is beginning of a new life!
You deserve it.Go girl!


M: 10 years
DD:5 DS Twin: 2 yrs old
DDay: Earlier 2013, WS flew/met many times with a Philippine girl found online (20 yrs younger)
SA finalized 6 months after DD. divorcing...
I am determined to fly even with broken wings and a broken heart!

Posts: 177 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Canada
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7824 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
msk99
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Default  Posted: 10:13 AM, October 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great to hear, congrats!!


BS (Me): 40 STBXWW (Her): 40
M: 15 Years, 2 Awesome Boys
Divorced

Five simple rules of happiness:
1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.


Posts: 712 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Alberta
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, October 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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ChoosingHope
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Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, October 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 2:17 PM, October 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2601 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
broken2
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, October 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The first kiss after the divorce is the best! It awakens something you thought you would never feel again. Good for you!!!


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Confused1829
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Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woot woot!!! So happy for you, you deserve it!!

Here's to many more lovely smooches in your future! "raising glass"


Me: fBW 31
DDays: May 31 2011 & Aug 6 2011. Divorced November 14, 2011 (No Kids)

Posts: 282 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: New York City
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So glad you are happy.

Looking for an update on the second date.......?


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2386 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for all the congrats! I am so not ready to dive into anything serious, but dipping my toe back in the dating pool feels pretty dang good. If nothing else, its great for the ego, which certainly took a beating during the A and D/S.

Both our weekends got a little hectic so we postponed until tomorrow night. Looking forward to it....


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin


Posts: 915 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
numbandnauseous
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Default  Posted: 11:30 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What happened?! Update, please!


BS (me) - 41
WH - 48, EA with HS GF x 2
M: 10 years, T: 20
2 small children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
Divorcing

Posts: 827 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: the other side
TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 4:29 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 21286 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
Blackhair
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Default  Posted: 6:23 AM, November 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is so cute!


M: 10 years
DD:5 DS Twin: 2 yrs old
DDay: Earlier 2013, WS flew/met many times with a Philippine girl found online (20 yrs younger)
SA finalized 6 months after DD. divorcing...
I am determined to fly even with broken wings and a broken heart!

Posts: 177 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Canada
persevere
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Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, November 3rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hope it went well. :)


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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