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summerain
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Default  Posted: 7:22 AM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now that I have your attention (honestly I had no idea how else to put it)

Do you have lame bands/ songs that you listen too... that's sort of embaressing?

mine is lifehouse tehehe
sad or angry or MUSHY AS HELL


OW1 inadvertently let me know WH loves English breakfast tea. Never ever saw him drink it. And I never will.

Posts: 817 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Australia
yousaid4ever
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Default  Posted: 7:40 AM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

P!nk She speaks to my soul on so many different levels

[This message edited by yousaid4ever at 7:43 AM, October 26th (Saturday)]


I took your words and I believed
In everything you said to me
Cause you said forever
And ever, who knew?......Pink

BS(me)55...STBXWH 55
Married 37 yrs/4 grown children, 5 grandchildren
DD's-10/75; 10/80; 09/92; 12/09; 12/10; 03/11...more?


Posts: 74 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Utah
Flourgirl
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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have a whole playlist on my iPhone labeled broken. Look what you've done. By Jet pretty much sums things up for me.


BS me 38
WH him 39
Dd 7/1/13. TT 7/22/13
SAHM with 4 wonderful kids

Posts: 133 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Kansas City
TheAmazingWondertwin
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Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fun.
Didn't like them before but for some reason post d day, their songs always either pump me up or drag me to tears.

On good days I crank up the Disney stuff and pretend I'm Belle.


Everyday is a new day, some good, some bad.
Me- BS 39
Him- FWS
14 years- 2 middle school children
DDay- 07-24-2013
NC broken from August 6- 24, 2013
Avalanche of Truth on November 14, 2013
Length of A: June 10th to Dday- with broken NC

Posts: 470 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: East Coast
blakesteele
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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ylvis...that dang fox song on youtube.

FUN...really like their Some Nights song...was an anthem of sorts for me as I hit the gym during some very dark times post-DD.


ME: 42 BH
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012 by 1 email to OM...OM did NOT respond.
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not yet incurred...may never incur.

Posts: 2710 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
Kelany
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Default  Posted: 8:33 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh hell yes!!!!

For a long time my ringtone was Payphone by Maroon 5. I mean...listen to the words, lol.

P!nk is a favorite as is Maroon 5, One Republic, Mumford and Sons, Fun. and so many more.

Eta I got to see Maroon 5 last April and Fun. in July. Was awesome. My husband came with me too.

[This message edited by SamanthaBaker at 8:35 PM, October 26th (Saturday)]


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 1993 | Registered: Feb 2012
AML04
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Flourgirl-I just looked up that Jet song. I've heard it before but never really listened to it. Ugh, so right on.


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
T-13 M-9
DDay 5/26/13, TT through ???
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13.
Hopeful for R

Posts: 658 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 3:58 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey Wondertwin...

On good days I crank up the Disney stuff and pretend I'm Belle.

Nice to meet you, I am the Little Mermaid.

"Up where they walk...up where they run..."


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3255 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
AML04
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Up where they stay all day in the suuuuunnnnn"

Love me some Disney songs.


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
T-13 M-9
DDay 5/26/13, TT through ???
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13.
Hopeful for R

Posts: 658 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
BeyondBreaking
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Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hate to admit it, but I listen to Feist.

Also, when I am in a bad mood, call me maybe being blasted usually helps me feel more upbeat and happy, even if only for a minute.


I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.

At least the current man "only" cyber-cheated.

"Love means never having to say you're sorry."


Posts: 811 | Registered: Jan 2013
TheAmazingWondertwin
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Default  Posted: 5:03 AM, October 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi little mermaid! :) it helps doesn't it?!?


Everyday is a new day, some good, some bad.
Me- BS 39
Him- FWS
14 years- 2 middle school children
DDay- 07-24-2013
NC broken from August 6- 24, 2013
Avalanche of Truth on November 14, 2013
Length of A: June 10th to Dday- with broken NC

Posts: 470 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: East Coast
TheAmazingWondertwin
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Default  Posted: 5:35 AM, October 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This hit me in the mall the other day....
Bob Dylan "to make you feel my love."

Dylan was my late fathers favorite artist and this song was one if his faves. The contrast between thinking my H was so much like my father, then the A, then hearing this song- had me sobbing in the hoodies at zumies.
Such a beautiful song that I used to enjoy so much.


Everyday is a new day, some good, some bad.
Me- BS 39
Him- FWS
14 years- 2 middle school children
DDay- 07-24-2013
NC broken from August 6- 24, 2013
Avalanche of Truth on November 14, 2013
Length of A: June 10th to Dday- with broken NC

Posts: 470 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: East Coast
AML04
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Default  Posted: 8:07 PM, October 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love that song Wondertwin. Adele's version is beautiful too.

Know what's been making me cry lately? The Chevy commercial with Will Hoge's "Strong". I really thought my H was like that. Ugh.


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
T-13 M-9
DDay 5/26/13, TT through ???
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13.
Hopeful for R

Posts: 658 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, October 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG

The Chevy commercial with Will Hoge's "Strong".

I just saw this....gave me goosebumps.


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3255 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
summerain
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Content  Posted: 3:07 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

these are great!


OW1 inadvertently let me know WH loves English breakfast tea. Never ever saw him drink it. And I never will.

Posts: 817 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Australia
No12turn2
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Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't think they are lame, but I'm a metal head so it doesn't match my taste at all. I like Muse and Pink. Muse has really helped me through this ordeal. They do a pretty decent remake of "Feeling Good" that calms me down. Music does feel like porn sometimes.

[This message edited by No12turn2 at 9:37 AM, October 30th (Wednesday)]


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: D train.

Knowing the details doesn't always make you feel satisfied. In my case, it just made me want to burn a perfectly good couch!


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