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User Topic: Needing some SI Mojo
AFrayedKnot
♂ Member
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We are taking back our second biggest trigger today. Feeling pretty good about it. But a little SI mojo could really help.


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2581 | Registered: Aug 2012
karmahappens
♀ Member
Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You so got this.

Mojo and strength on the way.

Good luck!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3800 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
Jrazz
♀ Guide
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending bigtime mojo, friend.


(((Chicho & Broevil)))


I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown

Posts: 17286 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
sisoon
♂ Member
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 12:06 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Count me in.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10061 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
neverdidithink
♀ Member
Member # 40568
Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending more mojo your way.


Me: BW 52
Him: WH 55
Married 8 years
4 20-something his and hers kids

Trying to understand the behavior of some people is like trying to smell the color 9


Posts: 327 | Registered: Sep 2013
Dreamland
♀ Member
Member # 40488
Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

More mojo


Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore

Posts: 515 | Registered: Aug 2013
MsRukia
♀ Member
Member # 40219
Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo your way!


BS (34)
WS MisterP (37)
Together 14 1/2 years
D Day 03 Aug 13 EA & PA
D Day #2 01 Sep 13 continued EA & PA with OW
Slowly but surely finding my way.

Posts: 172 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Colorado Springs
MsRukia
♀ Member
Member # 40219
Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo your way!


BS (34)
WS MisterP (37)
Together 14 1/2 years
D Day 03 Aug 13 EA & PA
D Day #2 01 Sep 13 continued EA & PA with OW
Slowly but surely finding my way.

Posts: 172 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Colorado Springs
jo2love
♀ Moderator
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending super mojo.

Posts: 35125 | Registered: Mar 2011
LosferWords
♂ Guide
Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 1:34 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending massive amounts of mojo your way. Good luck, and take care.

Posts: 7020 | Registered: Dec 2010
LA44
♀ Member
Member # 38384
Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here's some Canadian mojo, Chicho. It's hearty stuff!


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2281 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
ILINIA
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Member # 39836
Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

More mojo!


Entering R slowly and cautiously...

Posts: 463 | Registered: Jul 2013
meplusfour
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Member # 38958
Default  Posted: 3:17 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending some mojo your way. Here it comes.....zap!


BW (me)42
WH 44
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."

Posts: 361 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Canada
TheAmazingWondertwin
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Member # 40769
Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Super mojo jojo coming your way!!


Everyday is a new day, some good, some bad.
Me- BS 39
Him- FWS
14 years- 2 middle school children
DDay- 07-24-2013
NC broken from August 6- 24, 2013
Avalanche of Truth on November 14, 2013
Length of A: June 10th to Dday- with broken NC

Posts: 474 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: East Coast
wifehad5
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Member # 15162
Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You got it


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 37148 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
PinkJeepLady
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Member # 37575
Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Feel the power cuz it's coming your way!!!
Please let us know how it goes!


Me: BW-54. Him-FWH 54. DDay June 1st 2012 cheating with prostitutes overseas
R-ing
"Not everything that counts is counted. Not everything that is counted counts." Albert Einstein

Posts: 484 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Out West
authenticnow
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Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you some right now .


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 37569 | Registered: Sep 2007
SadFlower
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Member # 37725
Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And here's some more, Chicho!


Me: BW, age 66
Him: WH, age 64
Married 19 years
In R.

D-Day: August 14, 2012
9 year LTA with former co-worker and family "friend"/7 years EA+PA, 2 more years EA


Posts: 395 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Connecticut
blakesteele
♂ Member
Member # 38044
Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Rock on Chicho!


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

Posts: 3635 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
learningtofeel
♀ Member
Member # 39543
Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, October 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's late in the day, but MOJO en route.


M 1989
3 young adult kids
D-Day 4.13.13
WS (him): 7 OW over 15 years
BS (me): had no clue

Posts: 97 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: United States
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