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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 12:21 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((( NIK )))


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - ??

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6440 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 12:29 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

Fuck that fucking fucker.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7813 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 12:36 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((NIK)))))

Fuck that noise.

Sending you strength.


Posts: 7038 | Registered: Dec 2010
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 1:34 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! Just....WOW!! And... confirmation (as if you needed it) that he is all about him and how much better you are without that.

(((NIK and family))) Take care of you and the people that matter.

tbh


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2329 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 1:43 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FTG! Must be something in the air at the moment all NPD Douchebags are running rampant.

Please take care of yourself NIK. Hugs sent to you honey.


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1331 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Afraid2LoveAgain
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Default  Posted: 4:48 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((NIK)))))

I'm so sorry about you Mom.

And hope your Daughter is doing better.



BW -- 57
Divorced 2001
Re-married 2014--on what would have been our 35th anniversary

Posts: 419 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: NC
courageous
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Default  Posted: 5:07 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Nik)). What a jerk! I'm sorry you are having to go thru all of this. I'm sorry about your mom.


Me: BW (35)
Him: ExWH (31) EA/PA with MOW coworker
Married 9 years, 2 small kids
dday 3/12/2011 divorced fall 2012

My ipad does a lot of crazy typos.


Posts: 648 | Registered: Jan 2012
SBB
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Default  Posted: 5:52 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))) Not only will I hold your earrings, I'll lend you my baseball bat. After I get in a few swings of my own.

Hold mine too please and another bat would be handy.

Zero Integrity. Zero Empathy. Just Zero.

Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.Zero.

((NIK)) As I once read from you during a particular difficult time:
"They know which buttons to press because they installed the fuckers!!"

Fuck.That.Guy. Fuck him to hell. He's on my shit list - the sad clown is now something like my 7th most loathed unremorseful WS. Not.Happy.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5554 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
phmh
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Default  Posted: 6:14 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


Posts: 3349 | Registered: Dec 2011
k94ever
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Default  Posted: 8:39 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow......just wow.............



{{{{hugs for you and your Mom and daughter}}}}}}


k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6538 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 9:14 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

Take care of you and be with your mom for as long as you are given.


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1753 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
PhoenixRisen
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Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))
"They know which buttons to press because they installed the fuckers!!"

so true
that was so a planned attack on his part. what a fu$ker

Posts: 485 | Registered: Jun 2012
isadora
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Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))))

I am sorry. Sending you strength.


Me: BW Him: WH
Married: 10 yrs
4 children: DDs 6&4; DSs 2& baby
2 Affairs - 2010 year long PA/EA, 2008 2 month online EA
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.


Posts: 4506 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Back home again in Indiana
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dear Nik,

You are awesome. He sucks. I wish his voice would diminish to the annoying drone of an insect and that he could be SQUASHED as easily.

I am so sorry.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5808 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 11:24 AM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Their audacity knows no bounds. I'm sorry you're still having to deal with his selfishness and insensitivity.

(((NIK)))


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3600 | Registered: Oct 2011
persevere
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Default  Posted: 12:04 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))) F.T.G. I hope the vent got that idiot out of your head so you can focus on what matters. Thinking about you lady.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4515 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
tesla
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Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ah, jeez. What a fucking moron. I'm sorry that you have to deal with such stupidity.

((((Nik))))


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4619 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4165 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
ruinedandbroken
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Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fuck that fucking guy!!!!!!!!!!!

Dick!


“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 6&9
Married 14 yrs Together 21

Posts: 1575 | Registered: Aug 2010
HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 2:32 PM, October 27th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs and strength to you NIK during this difficult time.


And FTG


Me: Awesome - 35

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


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