Please, I appreciate the input and really would love to have a BS opinion.
Yes, she moved twice. She pushed very hard for me to move to be with her, and I wanted to. It was just tough to leave family, you know? But I did. And gladly. And then she left twice.
She never asked me to come with her. I am a young professional and was able to get a very good job when I moved to the new city. The temp job, was just that. Temporary. She would be coming back in 3 months. As for the PhD, she asked me if I was okay with it. I'm starting to think she wanted me to make the decision for her. That way, no matter what happened, she could use that as a crutch. Maybe I'm wrong, but knowing her well, it's a possibility.
She would tell me, "I'll go for a year and reassess." She said she might transfer home. And after she enrolled, she gained a connection who could get her into another school. Which was 3 hours away from where I moved to, the other way. She moved North and was talking about transferring South. So me moving to be with her during her PhD was a little unrealistic at this time.
I don't know what to do. She has stopped contacting me. It's been only 3 days, but that is 3 days longer than anytime in our 3 year relationship. I'm just afraid she isn't dealing with it.
Is there anything I can do? I've apologized, sincerely. I've talked with her parents and as I've said before, there is nothing more humbling than looking a man in the eyes, apologizing for hurting his daughter and then affirming your love for her. I'm also still in IC. I just am not ready to give up and move on.
Lastly, there are major battles in my personal life that I am winning and have been a some time now. I had my own issues, but it's been 6 weeks of victory and triumph. Which, no matter what happens, is good for me and an potential relationship in the future.
I appreciate all the input from everyone.