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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 1:58 AM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You guys are great. Thank you again. I am happy I reached out today.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.

Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


Posts: 2382 | Registered: Oct 2012
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nobody called for a vote, and I know that there are cross posters in multiple forums, but D/S has always been my first real home and my fall back for times of need. D/S is full of the most awesome, supportive, foul mouthed, creative, wonderful people EVER!

Welcome to the bunch.


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 12 DS 9
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5307 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
Vulcanized
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Member # 33523
Default  Posted: 3:41 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi Unagie.

I read many of your posts in WW, too. I very, very rarely post there, but do read.

I'm sorry you're stuck due to $$$. Sounds like a living hell. :(


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd; free of the overgrown baby
-----------------------------------------------------------
Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 634 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
heartbroken0903
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Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've posted in here a time or two and no one chased me out with a pitchfork.

In all seriousness, I'm sorry things are shitty for you right now. ((hugs))


Me: WS, 30s
XH: BS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

Reconciling after divorce


Posts: 1919 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 6:14 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi Unagie, and welcome. I think a lot of us have forums that feel the most comfortable, and entering a new one can be scary. I just started posting a little in NB. Every time I read over there it seemed like the members were light years ahead of me... but I'm a little braver now and everyone has been very kind. D/S is still "home" to me though; not sure when (or if) that will change.

As previously mentioned, pain is pain, and no one should have to suffer alone. Hugs to you in your struggle.

((unagie))


Me: BS, 45 Him: XWH, 45
Together 8 yrs, married for 5
DDay 04.10.13 Divorced 05.14.13
Two furbabies

Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life. ~ JK Rowling


Posts: 567 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi Unagie. These are a pretty great group of people here. You'll have some fun and get lots of great support


D Day: 6/13/13
Moving on. Every Single Day.

Posts: 493 | Registered: Jul 2013
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Needs more swearing.

Posts: 1323 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Arizona
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 9:25 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Needs more swearing.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.

Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


Posts: 2382 | Registered: Oct 2012
KickedintheGut
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nah, the swearing always goes haywire every time NG ends up with a garage thread


Me - BW (38) Him (calcitro) - SAWH (38)
2 Kids Working on R
DDay#1 - 11/9/10 - 2 year EA/PA
DDay #2 - 12/9/10
Disclosure - 4/8/11
Timeline - 5/9/11

Posts: 492 | Registered: Nov 2010
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Shit. Ass. Bitch. Attorneys.

Just trying to ramp up the bad words


D Day: 6/13/13
Moving on. Every Single Day.

Posts: 493 | Registered: Jul 2013
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 10:50 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome!


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2373 | Registered: Jan 2010
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 12:04 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Unagie))) you're safe--and welcome--here.


BS-me, 52
WH(Mr. Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS17
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 7968 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 12:11 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome, no need for wariness . Definitely a need for a potty mouth, somewhat macabre humour and righteous indignation at fucktards.


Me: Awesome - 35

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


Posts: 716 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 12:25 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh! Oh! Hey, this forum newbie may not know about The Garage yet. Lordy, I may finally be all done in the next month with that friggin' garage. Who knows, I may yet find another cache of sick, perverted, twisted shit. Or maybe I'll finally find the body or bloody knife.

You've missed some good times, Unagie. Good times.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 elementary school-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 8789 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 12:37 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh no NG I've read about the garage. Its been greeted with its fair share of out loud exclamations on my end.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.

Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


Posts: 2382 | Registered: Oct 2012
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:01 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't live here and I know allllll about the garage.


For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot

Posts: 14718 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 1:17 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh my! Such infamy!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 elementary school-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 8789 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:25 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm just sorry that your pain makes for such gripping storytelling.


For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot

Posts: 14718 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
7yrsflushed
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey Unagie, welcome to D/S. I hope you are treating your current living situation like in-house S. 180 the heck out of your EX and get a plan in place to leave. In-house S can be like a prison sentence and it's tough. If your EX thinks you are still friends then be prepared for some stupidity to come your way especially as you get closer to moving out. Keep posting and keep working your plan to move out and forward with your life.


D-day 5/24/11
BH = Me
STBXWW = Her
2 children
The first true sense of calm I felt in YEARS was when I filed for D...
Separated 6/2013, D official around 6/2014

Posts: 1583 | Registered: May 2011
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you guys, i'm going to need the support.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.

Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


Posts: 2382 | Registered: Oct 2012
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