It's interesting what guides us each to post in certain forums - I still feel intimidated by F&G, silly as that sounds, lol.
This was my first thought:
Unagie, welcome. Please feel open and comfortable to share. While this forum is primarily populated by the BS, that doesn't mean you aren't welcome. You will be supported.
So please pull up a chair at the table. Sip from the glass of compassion. Sample from the plate of experience.
I don't even post as much here now, but I think you are a welcome addition. 
Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling
