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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How can I learn to respect where he is in the process and not sell myself short in the meantime? I've woken up to what I want out of a relationship and he's not giving it to me.

Hate to T/J but I always read your name as unangie. I assumed your name was Angie and you being on SI wasn't who you thought you'd be. Lol woopies!?

If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck - it's not a fluffy pink unicorn squirting liquid rainbows, complete with pots of gold out of it's ass.

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Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sodamnlost i am cracking up. The statement you posted pretty much sums me up.

Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."

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Default  Posted: 9:48 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's interesting what guides us each to post in certain forums - I still feel intimidated by F&G, silly as that sounds, lol.

This was my first thought:

Unagie, welcome. Please feel open and comfortable to share. While this forum is primarily populated by the BS, that doesn't mean you aren't welcome. You will be supported.
So please pull up a chair at the table. Sip from the glass of compassion. Sample from the plate of experience.

I don't even post as much here now, but I think you are a welcome addition.

Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling

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