So, don't look at the new fiancée as her future husband but as husband #2... because what he doesn't yet know is there is a strong possibility there will be a #3 and 4 etc after him!
I have to believe MrsDoubtfire. It will come around on them. Maybe some of us will even be lucky enough that the once-AP becomes a BS and finally understands what they've done to us.
If she ever gets engaged, I would have a hard time not telling her new SO her history. Her real history. Not her NPD version. But, you know, sometimes people do not really want the truth. But, in your case it sounds like this guy was involved during the A. Why doesn't he already know?
I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.
[This message edited by crazycatlady at 11:11 AM, October 29th (Tuesday)]