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User Topic: Really interesting convo
heartache101
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Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So I have a married girl friend and I asked her if her husband was having an internet affair what would you do?
Take the computer away divorce what?
She said I would look the other way!
WOW really? She said yes after being married 35 years what else would I do. Wow is all I said.


There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing

Posts: 3188 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Indiana
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My guess?

He's done it before.

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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DS - 31 - Yikes!


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OldCow18
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Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have to assume there is no love there then. Maybe I'm way off base, but if theirs is a marraige of convenience perhaps she would look away. If this person was her best friend and partner and there was love, how could she look away?


Me, BW forty something, DD & DS,
Married to WH (49) 11 years, together 16
D-Day 6.8.13

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EvenKeel
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Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He's done it before.

Yep - that is my guess too. People usually have VERY strong opinions on the subject. Her response means she has either BTDT or is in a bubble and has no clue how much pain it would cause to be blindsided with an A.


Eyes are useless if the mind is blind.


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heartache101
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Default  Posted: 12:02 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh he cheated early on in there marriage physically. She said if it was internet atleast it isnt in person.
Like what? Dont ya think it will move to that. Oh well. I told her I could not live like that. I could not believe her answer. She lost a leg about 7 years ago I am wondering if she lost some self worth?


There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing

Posts: 3188 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Indiana
maxandsen
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Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't think any of us knew or know what we would do until it happens

I always said I would D but here I am trying to R


Me: 40
FWH: 51
Married 12 years
DDay: Jan 2012
A: One year
S: 6 weeks before he pulled his head out
R: March 2012
On the bumpy road to happy

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