Topic: Everybody's got their popcorn, right?
Member # 22870
| Posted: 8:54 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013|
Yep. You got this one. Poor him.... NOT!
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 7038 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Member # 4286
| Posted: 8:58 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013|
He chews on those pre-divorce deposits like a dog on a bone.
The visual of their appearance is rather mind-blowing. The simple fact that she showed up is disgusting. His rampant stupidity is sad, frankly.
I'm sure the judge delayed delivering the opinion for exactly the reason that your attorney gave.
Good for you for the bravery and intelligence of your performance.
The engagement? Oh how lovely for both of them. I'm sure the ring is financed and he will be paying for it long after they have split up - and she will keep the ring!
Now go relax
Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.
"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink
Posts: 3055 | Registered: May 2004 | From: Midwest
Member # 25957
| Posted: 9:01 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013|
OW should have token notes on your stellar performance because she is going to be in the exact same position in a few years.
Seriously, those two gutter trash deserve each other.
Dear god, hopefully you won't have to deal with OW in her new position as wifetress. I've been lucky enough to not have to deal with XH's wifetress.
You rock Tesla. Never forget that.
Posts: 1239 | Registered: Oct 2009
Member # 37735
| Posted: 9:10 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013|
The fact that he did not have a lawyer, & the way they dressed to come to court, will be held against them.
It sounds like you did great. We are all proud of you.
together 25 yrs, married 24 yrs, 4 children;Rebuilding
D Day: 5/10/2011 PA
OW: WH's co-worker,divorced, no children, 20 yrs younger than I-----& she knew he was married, had met our kids, but that did not stop her from trying to destroy our family
Posts: 1106 | Registered: Dec 2012
Member # 34554
| Posted: 9:26 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013|
You are my hero Tesla.
ME: FBW 38
3 gorgeous kids
Posts: 114 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 29250
| Posted: 9:31 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013|
lol. What a complete train wreck he is! It's actually quite comical!
“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 6&9
Married 14 yrs Together 21
Posts: 1514 | Registered: Aug 2010
Member # 1558
| Posted: 9:31 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013|
That he always pays his debts.
So not only is he an idiot, he's a Lannister. Bully for him.
Deep breaths. It's over. I'm proud of you.
“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown
Posts: 14039 | Registered: Jun 2003 | From: Middle-of-Diddly, TX
Member # 34697
| Posted: 10:02 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013|
Thank you everyone.
On my second glass of wine. Very happy this is over.
I think what I've realized is that my new life is truly blessed. I have moved on. Ex-shat is an ugly, pathetic excuse of a man. I felt nothing for him but disdain and sympathy.
Yes, it bothers me that they will try to get Teslet to call stripper-whore 'step-mom.' But fuck that shit...
That bitch ain't got nothing on me. And my kid knows it.
So here's to ex-shat and stripper-whore...I wish them all the happiness they deserve. May their drama always be epic and their stupidity continue to guide their path together.
[This message edited by tesla at 10:03 PM, October 29th (Tuesday)]
Posts: 4205 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Member # 19258
| Posted: 10:38 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013|
oh holy hell! he wasted an hour of your life with this crap? I figured he'd be done in 15 minutes. UGGGH!
ummm....'wishes to the future mr. stripper whore'
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Posts: 8262 | Registered: Apr 2008
Member # 34823
| Posted: 10:59 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013|
So here's to ex-shat and stripper-whore...I wish them all the happiness they deserve
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Posts: 7254 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
Member # 30592
| Posted: 11:14 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013|
So glad for you that this is over, but man oh man, what you had to go through. Sounds like you maintained total coolness though. And ex-shat definitely showed what a moron he is. So sorry that you are still knee deep in this shit.
Spent half my life with an Ahole
D final!!! 11-11
"Obladi oblada life goes on...."
Posts: 344 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Wisconsin
Member # 34722
| Posted: 11:19 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013|
I can't believe 1) stripper-whore showed up with him, 2) the way they were dressed! and 3) she went right up front with him! (then couldn't find her way back ) While you were classy, appropriately dressed for respect of the court and had your act together (as always).
Well, I really should be able to believe those things about them! And congrats to them on showing everyone their "lurve is real".
When the decision comes down, he only has his L to blame!
Mojo to TheFly and trying for their encounters.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Posts: 1972 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
Member # 39193
| Posted: 11:25 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013|
then I visualized all of you sitting around stripper whore saying, "FTG and the stripper-whore he rode in on
You're just. So. Awesome.
Our mojo donations were well spent. You totally OWNED that pos today!
Me: BS, 45 Him: XWH, 45
Together 8 yrs, married for 5
DDay 04.10.13 Divorced 05.14.13
Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life. ~ JK Rowling
Posts: 567 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
Member # 31349
| Posted: 11:45 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013|
Wait till stripper-whore finds out that she'll need to hawk her ring so that he can pay you the money he owes you. (Not that $20 dollars or however much a cracker jack box costs is going to get him very far.)
Thanks for the update. I actually scooted my chair closer to the monitor and got comfortable before clicking on it.
Oh, and that idiot having trouble with the gate while getting her ass sent to the back of the room? Epic.
For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot
Posts: 14738 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 34373
| Posted: 11:55 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013|
Love, love, love this update. I really love how he could afford a ring for stripper whore but not to pay you what he owes. Wonder if you should show the post to your L and she could submit it to the record before the judge makes a final ruling.
Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 11
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
Posts: 1483 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Member # 40115
| Posted: 11:56 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013|
Wow Tesla, you write quite the riveting narrative. Well worth the popcorn. Have you thought about becoming a writer?
Your description of the hearing reminds me of the story of the 'Man Who Came Unarmed to a Battle of Wits.'
Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.
Posts: 1007 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
Member # 38377
| Posted: 11:59 PM, October 29th (Tuesday), 2013|
her make-up is all sorts of whore.
Love that visual
I'm so glad your sweet little Teslet has you. The lack of class/dignity over the there is just astounding..
BW~ 35, Two Darling Sons~ 10 and 6
Filed D 11/2012
Posts: 1375 | Registered: Feb 2013
Member # 30989
| Posted: 12:03 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013|
Anyone remember Nick Tortelli and his bimbo from Cheers?
In my mind, Stripper Whore is Nick Tortelli's bimbo-cum (no pun intended )-wifetress. The swinging door visual just cemented this.
What a pair.
I'm glad you're no part of that pair. 'Cause you're no Tortelli.
WH(Mr. Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS17
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke
Posts: 7968 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
Member # 32554
| Posted: 12:11 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013|
So they show up looking like white trash while Tesla looks like Tesla:
And then, ohmagaw, Stripper Whore get's ordered back to the gallery & cannot manage the swinging door:
Then exShat won't get off the subject of stuff from before the decree:
And then he doesn't remember when he got divorced:
And then come to find out he's going to make an honest woman out of Stripper Whore:
And we round it out with her calling Teslet her future step-son:
Thank you for sharing, Tesla!
[This message edited by Nature_Girl at 12:12 AM, October 30th (Wednesday)]
Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 elementary school-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
Posts: 8792 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
|Sad in AZ|
Member # 24239
| Posted: 12:27 AM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013|
Truth is stranger than fiction; when are you going to write the screenplay?
I promise to surround myself with amazing souls and love them fiercely.
Posts: 19188 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
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