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User Topic: The Floodwaters are Rising...
TimeToManUp
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Member # 37538
Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's "that" time for TCD. My A started the trigger, but since the miscarriage, it has only gotten worse. The feelings she experiences are so intense, so painful... She is so distraught, her mood so dark. Last night she was a drooling, snotty, tear-soaked mess... And it hadn't even begun yet. I know I have to be there for her, and I know I haven't been great at it in the past, but I am working to be better. I just fear that with the way she feels and the things she says she (or me, I suppose) will get dragged out to sea by the flood of emotions. Please keep TCD in your thoughts. It's going to be a rough ride...


I know we're worth it.
WH (Me-33)
BW (tattoodchinadoll-31)
D-Day: 12/22/11
Together 15 years, married for 10.
Three daughters, 8, 4 and 2.

Posts: 227 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: New Jersey
HFSSC
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Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You and TCD always have my prayers.

I know this is a horrible time and if you're like my H, feeling so helpless may lead to what looks like impatience. I believe with JM that it's not intentional nor is it impatience with me, but in that emotional, soppy state of mind it can sure look like it. So however patient you feel like you should be, multiply it by about 10. To the point of feeling ridiculous.

I want to say, too, that I'm impressed with the work you have done. Thank you for paying attention to your screen name and taking care of that beautiful woman you have there.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2707 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
topperoff22
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Member # 40762
Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not sure I'm familiar with TCD, but I'll be thinking of her and you during this difficult time.


BS - Me 36
WS - Him 35 (almost 36)
Child: son, 6; just learned one on way
DDAY - July 24, 2013 (thousands spent on ex girlfriend)
DDAY2 -Aug. 3, 2013 (proof he slept with her)
R is slow going after TT for 1 month

Posts: 316 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: US
TimeToManUp
♂ Member
Member # 37538
Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know this is a horrible time and if you're like my H, feeling so helpless may lead to what looks like impatience.

^^^^Bingo. The things that are eating her alive are things that I just CANNOT control or really do much about. My words are of little comfort and we just can't seem to catch any significant break, y'know? We have little happy coincidences here and there, but never that big something that would help relieve some pressure. Ugh.


I know we're worth it.
WH (Me-33)
BW (tattoodchinadoll-31)
D-Day: 12/22/11
Together 15 years, married for 10.
Three daughters, 8, 4 and 2.

Posts: 227 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: New Jersey
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