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User Topic: They are getting shitty on me
tesla
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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dunno if I should post this on my popcorn thread or start a new one? Sorry mods, let me know if I'm out of line here.

Ex-shat texted today asking if Teslet was in daycare tomorrow. I haven't texted back yet, not really a priority for me since I told him last Wednesday that we were clearly in disagreement regarding visitation and parenting time, therefore we would revert to the state parenting time guidelines. He gets Teslet tomorrow night for halloween but not till 6 pm.

I just got a text from stripper whore saying that she planned on picking teslet up from school tomorrow at Xam to take him trick or treating with his best friend.

Uh...think that sparkly ring has made her a little bold? Or maybe ex-shat told her this is what is happening (that's my guess).
Whatevs...not my problem.

School knows what is going on. She won't be able to pick him up. If he comes, he won't be able to pick him up.

WTF? He looks like a fool in court and now has to pick a fight he can win? But he won't win this one either.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4687 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG, they really are dense. You have it handled, so let them try. As if yesterday's smackdown wasn't enough - wait until tomorrow!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ooooh! I don't think I've had this much popcorn since...well...MY divorce.


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6536 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
FirstLoveGone
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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh for fuck's sake! Are you kidding me? Not even one day since court and their "engagement" and they are already stirring the pot.

They really need the validation from you, don't they? Pathetic little souls.

Crickets, Tesla.


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The teacher just called me. Ex-shat emailed her saying that stripper whore is picking Teslet up tomorrow. I told her neither ex-shat nor stripper whore would be picking Teslet up, his parenting time does not start until 6 pm. I will be picking Teslet up from school.
This guy is fucking pathetic.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4687 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lordy, tesla. Sending you strength.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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persevere
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Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AYFKM? What an idiot, or rather duo of idiots....

Glad the school has your back, but it's unfortunate they have to be put in that position because he's such an ass...


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4609 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, really? Really?

Um, didn't we all predict this? That since he was unable to destroy you by stealing your dog, he's going to go for Teslet now?

Maybe you should make double sure that the staff at his preschool/daycare know not to release him to ANYONE but you. Is it time for a codeword?


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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Skan
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Default  Posted: 10:35 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh honey, I don't want to pop pop-corn I want to go out and find fist-sized rocks to hurl at the jackass. My sincere apologies to all jackasses.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 10:49 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The teacher just called me. Ex-shat emailed
Seriously??!! Your ex is such a tool. And apparently not one of the bright, shiny tools, either...


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity.


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 11:15 PM, October 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today's story is brought to you by the letters F, T and G.

His escalation is somewhat worrisome given his history of being a crazy fuck. Please be safe.


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peridot
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Default  Posted: 12:44 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How much you wanna bet tomorrow is one day that Disney dad will actually show up to pick up Teslet since it's Halloween?

The good thing about schools and daycares, when people who aren't supposed to pick the kids up show up and they cause a scene or won't leave...they can be arrested.

I'd give him until he's 15 minutes late tomorrow and have a costume for Teslet just in case. I wouldn't bother sending him a message either if he doesn't show up this time. He knows when he's supposed to be there.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 1:23 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Having trouble sleeping tonight. Ex-shat just texted saying when trick or treating began in his neighborhood. Would I have Teslet ready at 5? Looks like he's backing down.

Not going to bother responding till I 'wake up' in the morning. No need for him to know that he's fucking with my sleep.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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dmari
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Default  Posted: 1:25 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The teacher just called me. Ex-shat emailed her saying that stripper whore is picking Teslet up tomorrow.
AYFKM??? AYFKM??? Who the hell do they think they are? My teeth are grinding.


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

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tesla
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Default  Posted: 2:03 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He keeps sending texts. Why doesn't he learn to shut the fuck up?
He says he's going to start keeping Teslet overnight on Sundays and that I better start looking for a new school for him because he fears it is inadequate. (Teslet attends a parochial school.)
FTG
I need a cup of tea to calm down and get some sleep.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 2:13 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a moron. It really bothers me that someone so moronic can still screw up your life and Teslet's life


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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SBB
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Default  Posted: 3:05 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tesla, Are you sure this guy speaks English? Maybe try translating your messages into Klingon for him.

Turn your phone off.

He gets teslet at 6pm - not a minute sooner. No flexibility whilst he is being a fuckwit.

State parenting time guidelines means he gets teslet at 6pm - no pickups for him even if he does change schools. It would be VERY difficult for him to make you change schools.

I'd say stripperwhore and asshat came up with this strategy given how civil you were with her recently.

Rest up mamma - lack of sleep makes this all so much harder to deal with. Turn your phone off or block him whilst Teslet is with you. I used to forward all of the sad clowns texts/emails to a trusted friend to vet.

We cannot control their fuckery but we can control how much we let it impact us.

Just breathe. He knows he is fucked and will lose the legal battle so he has decided to torment you with this shit.

Stay the course - he'll run out of steam eventually.

((tesla))


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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MissMoneypenny
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Default  Posted: 5:15 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh yeez, I feel panicky just reading your posts- please just don`t let yourself be intimidated by this moron ! Sending you hugs and strength !


" The only thing I have in common with OW is our birthday "

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tesla
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Default  Posted: 5:38 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SBB - I use my phone as my alarm clock...but your point is well taken...going to get an alarm clock this evening and shut the phone off at night.

He is clearly going to ramp up his behavior until he gets that he is bound by the parenting guidelines. He's whining that I'm actually the only one disagreeing (so he should get his way!) and that I'm making up rules that don't exist

I was hoping this crap would die down after the court date. But I guess I just need to assume that he's going to be like this from here on out.

Okay, I can do this.
Maybe he'll take me to court this time!!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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