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User Topic: How old was your WS when they cheated?
Offhispedestal
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Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was curious but expected my hunch was correct. There are 159 replies and I counted like 83 WS that were
At least 39+ ...
My WS was like 42. He had every midlife crisis symptom:

Wanted his dream sports car more than ever

Hated the fact he was a grandpa (meant he was old)

Insane workouts and turned himself into a 20 yr old buff body

Started expressing more and more how he wanted to
Train to be a cop

Felt like he missed out on life

Flirting with younger woman

Convinced himself he deserved to do whatever he wanted


ME-44
WH-45
Married 24


2Beautiful daughters
DD 6/26/10 (he broke down & confessed)
DD#2 3/14/11 H in OW's car
TT 7/1/11 (NC broken, through emails)

In R


Posts: 639 | Registered: Jun 2011
Ambergray
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Member # 40778
Default  Posted: 9:52 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

37


Me-38
WH-38
Dday June 2013

"What lies behind you and what lies in front of you, pales in comparison to what lies inside of you. Ralph Waldo Emerson


Posts: 95 | Registered: Sep 2013
markyall
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Member # 37808
Default  Posted: 9:57 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

36


Me:BH 42
Her:WS 36
two kids-still in school
Dday 052512

Posts: 9 | Registered: Dec 2012
girlsbird
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Member # 30877
Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

66


D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed

Posts: 1203 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: arizona
LivinginLimbo
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Member # 35004
Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

51


BS - 62
FWH - 60
Married 34 years
D-Day 2/12/12
Doing well with R

Posts: 1052 | Registered: Mar 2012
naivewife
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Member # 38375
Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

37


D-day #1 - 1/23/13
false R, then...
D-day #2 - 3/26/13
I will come for the benefit of the sick, remaining free of all intentional injustice, of all mischief and in particular of sexual relations with both female and male persons. - Hippocratic Oath

Posts: 342 | Registered: Feb 2013
Jono
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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Her emotional affair started when she had just turned 45, physical affair when she had just turned 47, and caught at it at 49.

OM was the same age as her but was ironically not only cheating on his wife but also cheating with another woman!

Wonderful choices!


Posts: 469 | Registered: Sep 2005
ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The first ONS I know about, WXH was 45. But it may have started earlier...


Me: BW (55)
Him: WH (62)
7/14/11 - Divorced

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