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User Topic: How old was your WS when they cheated?
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 1:43 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ws 44. Ow 37


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5134 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
Angel177
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Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH 25
Me 25
Slut 25


Me:BS
Him:WH
D-Day Sept. 14/12...R started Dec. 3/12
Together-10 years Married-5 years
Daughter-3
Son-13 months (died July 2, 2014)
Baby #3 due Feb. 2015
4 month EA and 4 month EA/PA in 2012 with my "friend"

Posts: 251 | Registered: Oct 2012
Dallas2
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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

36 12 years of M.


Me

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suposd2btheonly1
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Default  Posted: 2:47 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WH turned 30 june 29th, he started talking to OW the week after july 4th slept with her july 17th. So barely 30. OW recently turned 22 before the A

[This message edited by suposd2btheonly1 at 2:48 PM, October 31st (Thursday)]


Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW: 22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head

Posts: 206 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Total Cliche MLC
39-40. Yup completel with a motorcycle purchase, and a heart attack.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8714 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
PinkJeepLady
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Default  Posted: 2:54 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OLD ENOUGH TO KNOW BETTER!
Started around age 50-51


Me: BW-54. Him-FWH 54. DDay June 1st 2012 cheating with prostitutes overseas
R-ing
"Not everything that counts is counted. Not everything that is counted counts." Albert Einstein

Posts: 490 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Out West
FightingBack
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Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From 42 to 58


Me 53
WH 58
Married 25 years
4 children S30,D24, S23,S21
D-Day Nov. 29, 2011
15 year affair with married employee.
Together trying to make sense of it all!

Posts: 785 | Registered: Feb 2012
Getting to Happy
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Default  Posted: 3:13 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mr. Happy was 53 to 59

Stupid Slut Howorker 40 to 46

Me 47 to 53...He was too 'busy' to remember my 50th birthday...grrr.

A the end of 2005 I had just bought him a new 2006 BMW Convertible...something for him to squire around his slut.

He fulfilled my worst fear. He had a cliche MLC with the closest 'thing' he could find...a dumb, slutty subordinate. Creep.

[This message edited by Getting to Happy at 3:15 PM, October 31st (Thursday)]


WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown


Posts: 1141 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: La La Land
LoveActually
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He was 38


BS (Me)
WS (Him)
D-Day 5/29/09
Married 11 yrs, together 16 yrs

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jackson
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Default  Posted: 4:29 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

46

Posts: 790 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: Midwest
TXBW68
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

34-40.

His IC told him he was typical MLC because we had been together since he was 20.


Me (46) WH (42),2 boys 15 & 11
M 18yrs T 22yrs
Separated 10 months (4/12 to 2/13)
Final Total - #1/#2 ONS and #3/#4 EA/PA - left me for #4, didn't know about #2 and 3 until he moved back home
We are solidly in R now

Posts: 792 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Dallas, TX
Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

40, turning 41.


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
soveryweary
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Default  Posted: 5:45 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

50, 51, 52, 53, 54, 55.........


Divorced 1/3/14

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Itstoohard
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Default  Posted: 6:16 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

41 he got his sports car
42 PA
She was younger- won't say how young


BS 64
fWH 64
PA 22 yrs ago
Started as EA for 2 yrs then ONS CORRECTION Started as an EA for 8 years
Trustismyissue

Posts: 180 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: US
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, I found out in March. But he started 3 years ago...probably had others...who knows.
He was 43.
But wait. After he left me for Shrek, his family started telling me about how he used to cheat on GFs and then later his first wife. Matter of fact, he left his first wife to marry his mistress/2d wife. Karma on that one cuz the 2d wife cheated and left him for her AP.
So, he's really been cheating his whole life.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2335 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
vivere
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Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

43-44 years

All the AP were younger than 25-30


You are responsible for your own happiness :)

Posts: 316 | Registered: Jan 2012
Bikingguy
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Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

28-43.

I had to use a calculator.

It said to not let the affair define you, but when it existed for over a 1/3 or your life - guess what it does!


Me: BH, 44
Her: WW, 43
D day. January 12, 2013

Posts: 675 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Socal
ILINIA
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Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

40. Midlife crisis cliche. He started the "connection" with her EXACTLY ON his 40th birthday. Nice.

OW 23. Coworker and mentee. Yep, textbook.


Entering R slowly and cautiously...

Posts: 492 | Registered: Jul 2013
marlie2014
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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He was 30 when he started cheating on me. *According to him* the first ONS was 19.

But...he's lied to me about a zillion times, so who knows??? They were all MINIMUM ten years younger anyway.


BS: 33
WS: 35 and definitely SA
Married: 9 years
1 stepchild, now 18 years old
DDay: 9/2/2013
ONS: Multiples over at least a 6-year period, at least twenty
1 OC 5 yrs old and another on the way (by different ONS)
DIVORCED AND FREE!!!!

Posts: 211 | Registered: Oct 2013
HereWeGo62
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Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FWW was 41 when started, 43 at end of it.


If there is reincarnation I hope OM comes back as a low water flush truck stop toilet!

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