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User Topic: All I want to do is cry...
Darcy3
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Default  Posted: 12:40 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I should be mad as hell, but all I can do is cry.

It was my DD senior night for her last home game, and he couldn't even show up. He has not shown up to one game this season...did make it to one tourney but only stayed for a few hours...His excuse is that it is a 2 1/2 hr drive. But she asked him to be there last weekend and he waited to ask if he could leave work early till this morning. She came home crying after her game, saying that all she wanted was for him to be there and he waited till this morning to ask for it off. That he could be there for her and chooses not to.

This should have been a great night and memory for her and now this is what she will have. I just went to check on her and tell her how proud I am of her and that I love her, and she thanked me for coming.....you shouldn't have to thank your fucking parent for showing up!

She is now crying herself to sleep, and I just hurt so much for her.

My oldest DS who lives 2 hrs away, and worked a grave yard shift last night , and then went to classes this morning, drove down to be with his sister because he knew how important tonight was to her was there, but her father couldn't.

God damn stupid son of a bitch, I hope your little slunt is worth all the neglect and pain you have caused your kids!!!



Me = BS
Him = WS
3 teenagers
Married 24 years
D-Day: Nov. 10, 2012
Divorced

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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 1:02 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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Pass
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Default  Posted: 1:08 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That sucks, Darcy. Arseholes like that don't deserve to be dads.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


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dmari
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Default  Posted: 1:15 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I am so so sorry.


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

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Darcy3
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Default  Posted: 1:35 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One of the hardest things for me to understand about all of this, is that he use to be such a great dad. Especially for her...she has always been daddy's little girl. Ever since he moved in with that thing he barely sees or talks to his kids....he sees them for a couple hours every two to three months, and calls them each once, maybe twice a week, and talks to them for about 5min.


Me = BS
Him = WS
3 teenagers
Married 24 years
D-Day: Nov. 10, 2012
Divorced

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dmari
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Default  Posted: 1:44 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry but he is pathetic.


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

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SBB
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Default  Posted: 6:16 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One of the hardest things for me to understand about all of this, is that he use to be such a great dad. Especially for her...she has always been daddy's little girl.

It will never make sense to you because it is nonsensical.

The closest I've come to an explanation for this phenomena is that he was acting. The.Whole.Time.

My kids tears over his fuckery are the only things that can still make me feel white hot rage and cry rivers of tears. I've accepted what he did to me and the M. I don't think I'll ever reach acceptance about what he does to my girls.

I'm so very sorry. I wish he was a better man. (((Darcy and DD)))


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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LadyQ
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Default  Posted: 6:27 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for you and your dd. Kudos to your ds for being a great brother (and you for raising one!).

It is incredibly hard when those scales fall away and they realize what a shit their other parent is....


Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

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