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Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 9:46 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Marks 1.5 years that I have been alone.

The day that the XPervert snuck out in the middle of the night and abandoned his own child was the anniversary of his own father's death.

It is not known if he was aware of this (because of how messed up he let himself get without getting help).

Kind of hit me in the gut to be aware of it...I know..."It's not about me".

ETA that the answers I seek now are different. Why do I mourn someone who could cause so much hurt and destruction?

Why did a brand new life come in the middle of it?

What line did I get in when they handed out the fate cards?

There is so much I will never know and so much I do know.

Maybe sometimes it's best not to?

What little ability to communicate that was left is vastly deteriorating, so that crickets are basically all that I can come up with.

I did retain a new lawyer and have been able to only mention it here, so that to him it will come as a surprise-this is a bit of a shark, which is needed, as he has an NPD lawyer who enjoys a public show of humiliation for the opposition.

Well, my crickets are going so well that I'm getting a message that says, "Is everything ok?"

So, because my moods are swinging, I'm going to be naughty and let it ride some more.

We were not around the last two days so that the phone call was missed and I didn't write back any way at all, so that silence is going over the wires-thick, dark silence that I should not be enjoying so much.

[This message edited by Ashland13 at 10:23 AM, October 31st (Thursday)]


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


Posts: 2204 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Ashland))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25063 | Registered: Aug 2011
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry, Honey.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9538 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Ashland)))

Posts: 34755 | Registered: Mar 2011
SBB
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Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Crickets for me have been the light that showed me the path through the ugly, dark places. At first NC was sheer willpower, not it is as easy as breathing.

((Ashland13))


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5535 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
pregnantandsad
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Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Ashland))


M 7 years, together for 12
2 kids- DD4 and a newborn
D-Day 7/2013 he didn't want R and moved in with OW
Filing for D

Posts: 155 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: California
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Ashland))

Thinking good thoughts for you today.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life. ~ JK Rowling


Posts: 749 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
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