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User Topic: Don't go away mad....
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 8:29 AM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are on a roll, karmahappens. Great post, so true. Thanks for sharing with all of us.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9404 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
TrustGone
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Default  Posted: 8:33 AM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for that post Karma. It was right on target. I remember feeling the same way after I found SI after DDay#2. I remember my first posts and the first 3 reply's I thought didn't apply to me, but in hindsight they really did. It was just me not wanting to face that this is where I was in my marriage and that in order to move forward we would have to work really hard to R or I needed to get my ducks in a row and D him eventually.


BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 10:34 AM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks SMS

Trust, I hear you.

I think as much as we support R on SI the most important thing we support is healing, BS and WS's.

I would cheer on someone deciding to D as much as someone deciding to R. Facing your truth is one of the hardest things a person can do...and when it is done and someone faces the reality that's huge in my book.

Sometimes all you can do is read when things are tough. But maybe, someone will see what experience is there and be able to relate it to their own sitch.

It's all hard and muddy, but when we can get to a better place it is a different world than one we have ever lived in.

That's my hope, for all of us. That we are each able to find our true paths....even though there's a lot of hurt along the way.

[This message edited by karmahappens at 5:07 PM, November 1st (Friday)]


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3772 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 8:08 AM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know if i can bump something this old. .....

BS....we have all felt unheard or unjustly judged st different times. Know it's nobody's intention.

(((Hugs)))


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3772 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
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