Trust, I hear you.
I think as much as we support R on SI the most important thing we support is healing, BS and WS's.
I would cheer on someone deciding to D as much as someone deciding to R. Facing your truth is one of the hardest things a person can do...and when it is done and someone faces the reality that's huge in my book.
Sometimes all you can do is read when things are tough. But maybe, someone will see what experience is there and be able to relate it to their own sitch.
It's all hard and muddy, but when we can get to a better place it is a different world than one we have ever lived in.
That's my hope, for all of us. That we are each able to find our true paths....even though there's a lot of hurt along the way.