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User Topic: Crazy things OP said
Lovedyoumore
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Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, November 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The morning of the PA DDay after being told it was over, he was ashamed and the A should not have happened, OW said "please don't say that, it makes me feel like a whore".

Feel like a whore, you are a whore.


Me 52
WH 52
Married 30+ years
Together trying to R

I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.


Posts: 1468 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Southern, bless your heart
TheAmazingWondertwin
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Default  Posted: 6:05 PM, November 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have to say- while I enjoy reading about what the OP said---

I am enjoying even more our reactions to them.

Feel like a whore, you are a whore.


I'm sorry- I know all of this is horrible and tragic and heartbreaking- but it is making me chuckle- and I will take them where I can these days.


Everyday is a new day, some good, some bad.
Me- BS 39
Him- FWS
14 years- 2 middle school children
DDay- 07-24-2013
NC broken from August 6- 24, 2013
Avalanche of Truth on November 14, 2013
Length of A: June 10th to Dday- with broken NC

Posts: 474 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: East Coast
Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, November 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW said he'd better get on the stick and divorce me, or else she would start dating other people. And if he did get the paperwork rolling then "we can go to the A's game together! Yay!"

My life in the meantime is in shambles...but yay baseball!


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
tara1110
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, November 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have a few things the OW did and say. First was she made a collage of pics of her and my husband with pics of my son and our dogs, and her daughter, then posted it on FB. What a creepy witch.

Another one was when I spoke to her over the phone, she told me " I'm not that kind of woman ( who steals someone else's man)

What an idiot.

Dday: 7/24/13
Married for 5 yrs ( 7 yrs together)

H ( who is head over heels in love with his mistress) and I are currently separated and will be filing for divorce once separation period of a yr is done.


Me BS:34
H WS: 28
OW: 33 (butter face... Thanks to sistermilkshake for the nickname)
Dday: July 24, 2013 (5 days after our 5th wedding anniversary)
7yrs together, married for 5 yrs
Status: divorcing

Posts: 86 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: North Carolina
Deanna
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, November 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When I accused her of being too close to my husband:
" I would never do that to a friend"
Not - I would never do that to my husband, just she won't do it to a friend!


DDay - 11/4/09
BS-49 DDay
fWS-46 DDay
EA/PA with childhood sweetheart/ kissed
R - 11/25/09
Life is not a dress rehearsal

Posts: 1435 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Northeast
torn2pieces
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Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, November 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

the day i approached the ow and told her to stay away from my kids she wanted to clarify i meant not inviting them to her kids parties. that's when i new she was crazy! hello are you sane????? there's where the no boundaries was a perfect example !

Posts: 42 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: torn2pieces
NoReGrets
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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, November 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOL. So f'd up, but amusing in a really crappy way.

"I don't care who he f*s. It just can't be with her!"

That's what she told a couple mutual acquaintances who later told me. So in other words, you're giving MY bf permission to screw anyone he wants BUT his gf? That makes perfect sense...


Posts: 140 | Registered: Dec 2012
plainpain
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Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, November 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh wow. How do you not tear OW to pieces, when she gets involved with your KIDS? OW bought candy for my H to give to my children. Those are the kinds of things that make me the most furious.


Me: Believer; 40s
Him: Liar; 40s
Married 19 years
1 year EA/2 month PA/incidental infidelities I can't begin to process
OC born 2014
OW:21
In successful R, but still in just plain pain.

Posts: 807 | Registered: Jul 2013
Dreamland
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Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, November 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When I confronted the OW and told her who I was and WTF are you doing with MY husband... She hung up and finally texted .... she's not a homewrecker or a harlot.. She is innocent and she was feeling harassed and threatened.,
Really really you come into my life.. You better expect to be threatened... She's lucky she's still breathing..


Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore

Posts: 515 | Registered: Aug 2013
Dreamland
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Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, November 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When I confronted the OW and told her who I was and WTF are you doing with MY husband... She hung up and finally texted .... she's not a homewrecker or a harlot.. She is innocent and she was feeling harassed and threatened.,
Really really you come into my life.. You better expect to be threatened... She's lucky she's still breathing..


Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore

Posts: 515 | Registered: Aug 2013
Hrtbrken1
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Default  Posted: 10:51 PM, November 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was told that she never would have done this if she thought we were happy.

Well, uh, I thought you were my friend and you had just spent 4 days at my house playing with my kids while we laughed and chatted. Maybe you could have told me that FWH and I weren't happy?


Me-BW
Him-WH
Together 16 years, married 10.
DDay 07/26/2011, 8 month EA/PA with friend of our family. Months of TT.
DDay#2 Early spring 2012, confirmed EA with another woman.

Posts: 144 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Sunny South
summerain
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Default  Posted: 4:26 AM, November 3rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"i'm not a slut"


ummmmm


OW1 inadvertently let me know WH loves English breakfast tea. Never ever saw him drink it. And I never will.

Posts: 818 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Australia
SadFlower
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Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, November 3rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After the NC phone call, my FWH got two e-mails from OW--one seven months later (last March), and the next one in August. He did not respond to either one.

March e-mail: "I've tried my best to respect your wish for no communication..." Yeah, so well that she just had to write!

August e-mail: "If this e-mail has caused any problems, please let me know." How clever! If the e-mail causes problems because of breaking NC, FWH is supposed to compound that by getting in touch and thereby increasing the contact? Brilliant!


Me: BW, age 66
Him: WH, age 64
Married 19 years
In R.

D-Day: August 14, 2012
9 year LTA with former co-worker and family "friend"/7 years EA+PA, 2 more years EA


Posts: 397 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Connecticut
BrighterFuture
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Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, November 3rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I knew OW was stupid when she said, "I'm clean, I had my pap smear done this month" This stupid whore should know pap is only for HPV. And how clean can she be if she sleeps around without a condom with someone she barely knows, her response "It was supposed to be long term."


Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!

"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.


Posts: 343 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Ohio
Girlietoo
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Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, November 3rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When I saw the texts and called her introducing her as WS wife "I can't talk now I'm watching tennis"

When my WS wouldn't go see her because we were celebrating 15 years together.... "How do you think that makes me feel"

When I asked what she saw in my WS because his is..she cuts me off and says "old"

And the best one! When I asked if she was planning on being together and introducing him to her family..."oh my god I couldn't do that, my dad may be old but I'm pretty sure he could still give WS a smack-down"

^ that last one really highlighted how young and naive she really is.


Me- 40
Him- 47
March 9, 2013- the day my heart died

Posts: 247 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Canada
MoreWould
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Default  Posted: 12:02 PM, November 3rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WW brought home this gem from her AP

Being married just means you only screw other married people.


Me BH/WH, 63
Her WW/BW, 62
Her DDay Dec 1976 OMW at the door
My DDay, ~ 2years later, confessed ONS the next day
R via "Sweeping under the rug"
Still married, 40 yrs, mostly OK
2 kids, 24 & 20

Posts: 357 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Colorado
Truly
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, November 3rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW writing to WH's ex-wife about her A with my WH,
"I think he is not honest with his womans, he is BIG liar"
No shit, Sherlock!
English is not the BBC's first language.
There are many, many more but... trigger city


There are dark shadows on the earth, but its lights are stronger in the contrast.
Charles Dickens


Posts: 257 | Registered: Sep 2013
Whatdoido333
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, November 3rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW just LOVES my daughter...what an ass....it skeeves me out knowing she spent time with my daughter. She spent hundreds of dollars on her for her birthday.

The craziest was that she "Hates me"....Why does she hate me? Because I made too big a deal of their relationship!!
I guess I should have been happy that H has a "friend" to play with at work.....What an ass


Posts: 118 | Registered: Aug 2012
befuzzled110
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, November 3rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When WH and I separated, he moved to OW1's house:

*Are you two going to get back together?
Newsflash-that is between my and WH, and not your concern.

*OW1, one day when I had to stop in and get kids, pulled me aside and said, "I am so sorry for everything a few years ago. I never meant to hurt you, we were and are just so in love."
Newsflash- Wh was so "in love" that he was seeing 2 other women behind your back. Oh, I am so glad I gave YOU as much consideration as you did me.

*OW1 said, "I can't talk to you, I feel like I am betraying WH..."
Newsflash-you don't want tips on how to handle your "boyfriend", fine with me...

*OW1- "I love your children..If WH and I don't stay together, can they still come and visit me?"
Newflash- No, your skanky ass isn't going to have any lasting influence on MY children..Dumbass.

*OW2- When I confronted her about her affair with WH, she facebook messaged me: "I am sorry. I had moments of weakness. And no it don't make it right. But even if u never talk to me again. U should no that you just played right into his hand. He told u cuz he knew u would never talk to me again. He cutting your ties. I am sorry and I know it was wrong."
Newsflash- He wasn't cutting my ties, what made you think I would WANT to be friends with a cheating lying whore who used our friendship to gain a boyfriend, a.k.a WH ????

These people don't think right...

[This message edited by befuzzled110 at 4:35 PM, November 3rd (Sunday)]


Me: 37 and awesome
Him: 42 and not so awesome
OW1: 47 and desperate OW2: 34, freshly divorced, was once my friend OW3: is OW1 who took in WH during seperation.

Posts: 199 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Michigan
StrongerOne
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, November 3rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"I'm sorry if I caused you any suffering."

If.

Sanctimonious, self deluding biotch.

That was a month before she showed up at our house, messy weeping about how my H was betraying her. Our DS was there.

Yah, "if".


DDay Feb 2011.
In R.

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