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User Topic: Crazy things OP said
AussieMum
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, November 3rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ah let's see:

OW1 emailed me "he doesn't love you any more, you're just a fat ass bitch" yes, go away fool.

OW2 (when she must have thought I was going to tell her husband what she'd been up to) "stay away from my family, I will get a restraining order on you because you're a very unstable person. If you have problems with your husband, sort them out with him"

Amazing what goes through these skanks' minds.


Me 46
ExH 51
EA Jun-Aug 12 (OW1)FB flirting and then EA/PA with OW2 (Aug-Dec 12). New OW Jan 13, introduced her to the kids immediately.
Married 10 years, together 14yrs
2 kids (DS11 & DD7)
Separated Jan 13. Divorced Jun 14

Posts: 180 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Nest2007
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Member # 39532
Default  Posted: 11:44 PM, November 3rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh gosh, where to start:

From her notpology:

* I have lost my marriage, my girls and my home because of my actions. I lost my chance to give my girls something I never had. I am pretty sure this is close to rock bottom though I know true rock bottom will be losing fWH's friendship.

Oh, seriously? You're losing your home and your family but rock bottom is losing my H's friendship?

On FB during the EA but before the PA:

* Little Dove has stolen my heart. (My DD's name means dove.)

She later told me she has thought she had a future with my H, imagined being step mum to MY DD.

* Wondering why my fWH stopped interacting with her and gave her complete silence - this came up in a meeting I had with her ten weeks after DDay.

Really? You had an affair with a married man, what did you think was going to happen? We'd all get together and sing kumbayah and go back to the way it was before you seduced my husband?

* "I feel like I've lost," after fWH cut off contact with her. His response: "there are no winners in this." (They still have to work together and she still tries to break NC.)

* The absolute kicker: her BH found out about the PA after it had ended (knew about the EA and did NOTHING. I could wring the fool's neck) and told OW that "if she played her cards right, she could get to have another baby after all." With my fWH.

What. The. Fuck.

There was a time I felt sorry for her BH, but not anymore. If he'd had the guys to confront the EA, maybe the PA and all this heartbreak wouldn't have happened at all.

They're back together again. This was her second A. Morons deserve each other.

[This message edited by Nest2007 at 11:45 PM, November 3rd (Sunday)]


BS 35
WS 31
DD, only child
DDay: 06/09/13
End of TT/Full Disclosure 07/08/13

Reconciling. A stronger marriage now.

Psalm 37. It rocks my world. So does 140. Big guy upstairs has got it all figured out.


Posts: 230 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Here and there...
1Emptyglass
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Default  Posted: 12:07 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW called texted my FWH about 22 months after DDay (not the first attempt at contact)....We decided to text back "I don't know how to make this any clearer. Fuck off" She soon calls his cell and when I answer and tell her she might as well give up the contact because my husband doesn't ever want to talk to her again. She asks me "what is wrong with you?" I say, "I don't appreciate you f*cking my husband and the continued contact." And she say "Yeah, but what is wrong with you?"
ummmm wow, just wow. How does the mind of an OW work?


Me-BW 44
Him WH 44
OW single 54 co-worker
Married 21 years at d-day
kids: DD21 DS 17

Posts: 37 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: CA
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 2:48 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

in her words "a real piece of art " (pretty sure she meant piece of work, but she's never been the brightest crayon in the box! )

Omg what a dumb ass ^^^^^


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5134 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 4:49 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"I don't want to be a home-wrecker".

Bitch couldn't force XH into sleep-overs, so he'd come home at 4 a.m. Meanwhile, OW is the one who found XH's L.

I think she may still be trying to badger a ring outta him. Dumb slore.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 766 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
AML04
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Default  Posted: 6:35 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think I posted this before but this was her response to my text telling her what I thought about what her and my H did:

I promise that if you do not stop contacting me, you will see a side of me you never thought could exist. I tend to be quite the c*nt when I'm pushed too far. Leave me alone. Never text me again. I'm not asking.

I didn't respond because I was trying to take the high road, but God I wish I did now. I hate that she might think I didn't respond because of her "threat".


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
Met 2000, Married 2004
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13
Hopeful for R

Posts: 875 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
Issaquah
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Default  Posted: 7:17 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW6 called me a couple of times. The first time was to intimidate me after outing the A to her BSO.

OW 6: "Your husband is your problem, I'm not your problem. What he and I do are none of your business"
"No, I won't stop fucking your husband"
"Don't worry, I've got (BSO) under control" that's when I asked if her BSO minded that she was cheating on him.

After D-Day2 false R when she called my WH in tears after threatening to kill me and my children -"Issaquah called me a skanky whore, what are you going to do about it?"


BS - Me, 41 SAHM back in grad school
WS - Husband, 43 SA dx in March 2013
T-20, M-18 college sweethearts
Multiple DDays since 1999 - OW's all the way back to engagement
Most recent DDay 8-12,false R 1/13
DD-11, DS 13 with ASD

Posts: 779 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Virginia
LivingALie
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Default  Posted: 7:53 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This one still gets my blood boiling…immediately after DD when I saw the “I love you” emails – she told my H to tell me that what they had was “a different level of love” …………oh!!!! Geez…someone should have let me in on that!!!! I guess that makes it ok??


Me: BS
H had LTA with co-worker
Both mid-50s
Two sons - grown and on their own
DD - April 2010
Please note registration date is not correct. See my profile for details
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 1264 | Registered: Nov 2007
fourever
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Default  Posted: 9:45 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this…..
Early on when I kindly and gently asked her to leave us alone to figure out our marriage, she fires back:

"when he left me on (date), he was happy and in love".

Not so much! I sent that to her husband with a copy of my letter. Seriously! Are you F-ing with ME! Not any more F**k Tunnel!


In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.

Always, tell the other BS! Always!

"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!


Posts: 877 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Northeast
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My sister dealt with a real winner too.Ow called her after DD and asked when my bro in law was going to fix her car When my sister said NEVER, OW said no wonder he cheats on you, your a real bitch. These self deserving delusional freaks...you have to laugh I guess.


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5134 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
stillcrying4ever
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off".


D Day May 27, 2012



Posts: 186 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: USA
LadyLove
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Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When WS emailed MOW that he wasn't leaving me, she emailed him back:

"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"...

I know, right lol.. she really said that.. could she be anymore cliché?

She also told him in the same email:

"You will not be with her without dire consequences"..

and with that she then sent me a FB message outing him.. but not before he ran home and outed himself first. In the FB message she said:

"Hope your happy being married to someone who is in love with someone else... don't worry I don't want him anymore, he's all yours"

Really? He's in love with you but he's not leaving me? We have no kids together.. whats stopping him? You don't want him anymore? Then why are you scorned? Stupid twat.

Oh, how I wish I had outed her to her BS before he killed himself... We just gave her crickets instead.

[This message edited by LadyLove at 11:44 AM, November 4th (Monday)]


BW - 46 (me)
WH - 48 Ladyslove
Don't know if I can live with it.

Posts: 90 | Registered: Sep 2013
stillcrying4ever
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Default  Posted: 12:33 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Lets do lunch".

She wrote that to me 2 1/2 months after she text-ed me pics of my fwh licking/kissing her naked chest.

Written to me on facebook but since I am no friend to her on there or anywhere else I didn't see it for another 3 months after that.

Really! WTF!

[This message edited by stillcrying4ever at 1:00 PM, November 4th (Monday)]


D Day May 27, 2012



Posts: 186 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: USA
cliffside
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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This was in an email to my FWH and it always cracked me up....

From a 35 year old woman:

"I like seriously make the best rice Krispy treats EVER! I can't wait to make them for you!"

Rice Krispy treats, seriously? That's your grand talent? Well that and backs of cars... It still makes me laugh.


Me: BS 39
Him: WH 41
2 Kids
D-Day: 2/3/13
Broke NC 3/14
Very skeptically in R for now...

Posts: 269 | Registered: Mar 2013
plainpain
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Default  Posted: 5:37 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@cliffside: Rice Crispy treats?? Was she playing house? Lol, that's hilarious.


Me: Believer; 40s
Him: Liar; 40s
Married 19 years
1 year EA/2 month PA/incidental infidelities I can't begin to process
OC born 2014
OW:21
In successful R, but still in just plain pain.

Posts: 807 | Registered: Jul 2013
crazyblindsided
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOL @cliffside a real Betty Crocker that woman is.


BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended

Posts: 2266 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
Dyinghere
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Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She thought my 2 children and her 2 children could share a room with 2 sets of bunk beds like something awesome she saw on pinterest.

Also she said to me: I hope to marry him someday."




Posts: 132 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: the inside of my head
Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After NC was established, FWH receives texts (ignored & deleted):

"I will never forget you but I'll leave you be. You know where me and the kids live if you ever want to stop by."

When I confronted her (she was a mutual "friend") that I thought she and FWH were getting too emotionally involved and to back off:

"I am not comfortable with the three of us being friends anymore. I am in the middle."

Yeah, trying to be a third wheel must feel pretty uncomfortable. But that didn't stop her. She kept texting/communicating with FWH (this was before NC was established).

My God, this was so long ago but very easily remembered.

[This message edited by Lalagirl at 9:39 AM, November 21st (Thursday)]


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 31 years 9/2/14
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS,22 mo.& 2 mo. GD (DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

Posts: 5079 | Registered: May 2007
cancuncrushed
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Default  Posted: 9:53 AM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bizarrre!!!!! We have never spoken. But the only time I heard her speak, she was at company function, talking about a hurricane coming, and we all must take shelter. In a horrible southern accent. ????????? We were nowhere remotely near, an ocean. It was sunny outside.???? . I stated before....She was very dumb. No common sense at all. She seemed to have self control issues.


a trigger yesterday

Posts: 951 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: athome
cl131716
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Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ostrich- The OW in my situation said something similar! "You must be insecure". Ha! Her reaction to the final NC was proof how emotionally invested she was. She threw a fit! Got very nasty, told both of us to F off and she didn't need my WS help for work either. She also told me she wasn't after him and only sent him emails to say good morning after NC not to be rude. Guess she forgot about the one she sent stating it was shitty he never replied to such emails and she hoped they could still be friends.


Me BS 31
Him WS 34 Trying4change
Together 3 years, married for one
D-day: 07/23/13 cybersex with COW
D-day: 12/27/13 found out he met and kissed a "friend" in 2011
"A clear and innocent conscience fears nothing."

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