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SecondHelping
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Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Recently, I've see so much advertising/songs promoting infidelity that it makes me sick.

Up in Philadelphia there was a billboard adversting a cheeting club. Recently I checked my spam folder and I have Ashley Madison advertising in there.

This morning this song by Squeeze was played. The lyrics suck.

How is a BS able to get away from all this crap and madness?


Tempted by Sqeeze (Lyrics)

I bought a toothbrush, some toothpaste, a flannel for my face
Pajamas, a hairbrush, new shoes and a case.
I said to my reflection, Let's get out of this place.
Passed the church and the steeple, the laundry on the hill
Billboards and the buildings
Memories of it still keep calling
And calling
But forget it all I know I will
Tempted by the fruit of another
Tempted but the truth is discovered
What's been going on
Now that you have gone
There's no other
Tempted by the fruit of another
Tempted but the truth is discovered
I'm at the carpark, the airport, the baggage carousel
The people keep on grabbing, ain't wishing I was well
I said, "It's no occasion. It's no story I can tell."
At my bedside, empty pocket, a foot without a sock
Your body gets much closer
I fumble for the clock, alarmed by
The seduction
I wish that it would stop
Tempted by the fruit of another
Tempted but the truth is discovered
What's been going on
Now that you have gone there's no other
Tempted by the fruit of another
Tempted but the truth is discovered
I bought a novell, some perfume, a fortune all for you
But it's not my conscience that hates to be untrue.
I asked of my reflection,
Tell me what is there to do?
Tempted by the fruit of another
Tempted but the truth is discovered
What's been going on
Now that you have gone there's no other
Tempted by the fruit of another
Tempted but the truth is discovered

[This message edited by SecondHelping at 11:41 AM, November 1st (Friday)]


D-Day 1: Feb 1990
D-Day 2: 3 Sep 2012 (3 month EA/3 week PA)
BS 49, fWW 43 (Amibroken)
OP- Police Chief (Age 37)
M 25 Yrs, 3 Kids (17, 14, 11)
I initated the relationship at the Railway Tavern, she tried to end it at Scrap Tavern

Posts: 489 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Delmarva
OldCow18
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Member # 39670
Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Squeeze has been one of our go-to CDs to listen to for 15 years. It came up about a month ago and I told him we will never listen to that song again, he looked at me like I had 2 heads.


Me, BW forty something, DD & DS,
Married to WH (49) 11 years, together 16
D-Day 6.8.13

Posts: 620 | Registered: Jun 2013
plainpain
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Member # 40139
Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's everywhere, and I hate it. I saw a billboard advertisement with a picture of a peanut butter sandwich, and the tagline was something like, "Peanut butter and milk were made for each other. Jelly was just a fling." So casual, no big deal, just have something on the side. I have lived through the death of a loved one, I have survived rape.. this is by far the worst trauma and suffering I have ever endured. It's a big deal.


Me: Believer; 40s
Him: Liar; 40s
Married 19 years
1 year EA/2 month PA/incidental infidelities I can't begin to process
OC born 2014
OW:21
In successful R, but still in just plain pain.

Posts: 807 | Registered: Jul 2013
MakingLemonade
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Member # 41143
Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! Now isn't this an awakening for me? Didn't pay much attention to those lyrics but XWH played that song quite a lot in our early years. Huh! Now that I know he had an ONS a month before our wedding day, fitting.


Me: 40's; XBS Him: 40's; XWS/NPD/SA
D-day 1: 5/2007- A #1; 7/2007 A #1 continued-R
D-day 2: 3/2013 A #2/multi-ONSs; 4/2013 A #2 continues to present
D: 7/2013 (25 yrs together; days shy of 22nd anniversary-GOAL MET!)
Our kids: teen & tween

Posts: 168 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Southern US
ruby44
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Member # 41135
Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My IC tells me to listen to music to get my mind off the bad thoughts...really has she listened to some of the lyrics today! But it is just a song, and the way we feel when we hear it is the WS's fault. Some songs will never be heard in my house again. Just the consequence of his bad acts.


Me BW 52, Him WH 48
Married 13 years,
2 DDs (12 and 10)
D-Day Confirmed 10/24/13 suspected before that but did not want to believe it.
WH filed for D 11/12/13
2/8/14 WH asked if he could come home.
Lies!

Posts: 277 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Midwest
neverdidithink
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Default  Posted: 12:23 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH and I saw this played live shortly after Dday and I left the venue sobbing.

From songs to the stupid State Farm "Jake" commercial, the reminders are everywhere and it's crazy-making.


Me: BW 52
Him: WH 55
Married 8 years
4 20-something his and hers kids

Trying to understand the behavior of some people is like trying to smell the color 9


Posts: 338 | Registered: Sep 2013
1devastedmom
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Member # 38399
Default  Posted: 1:56 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Faithfully by Journey was my favorite song now I can't stand to listen to it. Because it reminds me that my husband is a cheating liar.

[This message edited by 1devastedmom at 1:57 PM, November 1st (Friday)]


Me BS: 42
WH: 44
DDay- April 17, 2013
Married 22 years
3 children: 18, 15 & 9
Reconcilling

Posts: 140 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: 1devastedmom
stunnedin12
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Member # 38141
Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just today I had the conversation with wh that a specific song, "I will wait for you" is not where I am in our marriage. I won't wait for him ever again. If he ever chooses to contact chickie again, if he ever chooses to berate me again, if he ever chooses to put his head so far up his backside that he's stupid, I WILL NOT be around when he sees the light again. He doesn't like it, but I don't care. I WON'T wait for him again.


ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Not sure, but trying I guess.

Posts: 477 | Registered: Jan 2013
headdesk
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Member # 40787
Default  Posted: 2:52 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So many things are triggering me now - it seems like cheating is brought up in so many shows/movies/media and even positive stuff like the ad with the artist saying she loves designing wedding jewelry 'because it's forever' makes me yack.


Me: 39
WH: 42
DDay:Sep 19 2013 (only TT of EA)
Oct 4th 2013 revealed PA through snooping.
Marred 16 years, together for 20. Looking to R at this time. We have awesome kids (12/14).

Posts: 273 | Registered: Sep 2013
Simple
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Member # 18814
Revenge  Posted: 3:41 PM, November 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There were times when I was glad I can't understand the lyrics of the songs... I just focused on the beat.

Damn you now I know that, that's a bad song...


Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


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