We have been having issues with getting my mail forwarded to my new address. That is a long story riddled with USPS red tape in itself. But today I noticed there was a physical block placed in the old POBox. Had to talk to someone at the post office about something else and asked her what that physical blockage meant. She told me XPOS put in a temporary forwarding order. About fucking time! Seven months after leaving the state (avoiding bill collectors)!
OK. Some background XPOS was a seasonal employee at this branch last year and the person I was talking to knew him from that.
After telling me about the temp forwarding order she said, "hopefully he will be coming back." I then proceeded to tell her that he won't as we divorced and he ran away after being caught at latest OW's house. She had the deer in the headlight look. I then told her that he took his whore with him and they had their one year old to take care of. Yes, a baby he fathered while married to me (and not the first OC). Her jaw dropped almost to the ground and she stammered' "But he's not exactly young anymore." I said, "yeah, and apparently he is incapable of reading the directions on a condom as well." Then she asked, "You are happy and doing okay?" I said, "I am content and doing as well as expected after having almost 30 years stolen from me." She said, "Well good for you!"
That is the first person outside family and close colleagues I have told the humiliating truth to. I live in a small, rural community. I am sure XPOS's shenanigans will spread like wildfire. His reputation will soon be in tatters so he better not ever think about coming back (doubt he ever will).
I am just sick of everyone thinking he is Mr. Wonderful because he has so much charm and charisma (he really does, so couple that with being a pathological liar and it is a toxic combination). It is time for everyone to know that Mr. Wonderful is a sham, and I have no reason to be humiliated about the shit he chose to do! Fuck him! No more social protection from me out of embarrassment!
ETA: The miserable fucktwit puts that old address as the return address on the envelope with his child support like I don't really know where he is living. Idiot. He lives in a world of stupid, secret squirrel games...
BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs, started 1994? - never stopped
Kids - 22, 20, 17
M Dissolved 2013!!!
This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man, ~ Shakespeare