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User Topic: I am officially divorced as of today!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mom4ever
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Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!


BW - me 43
WH - 45
M - 22.5 yrs
D-Day - 6/13/2013
2 DS and 1 DD
Divorcing
There are some things that "sorry" just doesn't fix... But I never even got a "sorry."

Posts: 94 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Southeast
Take2
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So... tell us how you really feel NatureGirl...

Congratulations!!!!!


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4112 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
badd
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Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG that is awesome awesome awesome news!Congratulations, well done! cant say enough good things about this!

Posts: 128 | Registered: Apr 2009
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats girl!!


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 7

Posts: 2000 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7695 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UblHhmGzp5Y

You totally have to listen to this one!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9273 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Lost15
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Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage



me(BS)-34 him(WS)-32 DS-15
Married 15 years
Blindsided with divorce 07-12-13
DD-08-1-13 OW-40ish,married 20 yrs, with 4 kids she abandoned
Divorcing and trying to move one tiny step forward at a time.

Posts: 112 | Registered: Oct 2013
newlysingle
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Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's a great feeling, isn't it? Congratulations!


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 809 | Registered: Mar 2013
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AAAAWWWWWEEEEESSSSOOOOMMMMEEEEE!!!!!


Me - 42
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
5 Furkids (3 Dogs, 2 Cats)

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

Note: I edit often for typos/clarity.


Posts: 6069 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!!!


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4131 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
persevere
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Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a great post to see on D/S!!!! SOOOOOO HAPPY FOR YOU NG!!!!!


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4374 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!!!

Enjoy your freedom!


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4847 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news, congratulations!!!

F. T. G.


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2538 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Am I the only one who just had a lot of "Garage Story" time freed up in their day? NOW what am I going to do?

Seriously - congrats.


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16395 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
cayc
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Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fabulous!!!

In your honor Calvin & Hobbes dance:

http://m.youtube.com/watch?vNWsmB4SjGJw&desktop_uri%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DNWsmB4SjGJw


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 3003 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats NG!! I will miss the garage saga also Here's hoping you grace us with amazing stories of your New Beginning


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1676 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYY!!!

I didn't have the best day today, but you totally made it better with that great news!

I'm so happy for you! You're FREE!

(((N_G)))


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3537 | Registered: Oct 2011
tesla
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Default  Posted: 9:25 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo-hoo!!!!!!
So very happy for you!!!!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4552 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
jackie89
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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


Separated - working on R

Posts: 451 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
blue8888
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Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!


Me- BW 31, WH- 29
M 11 yrs Together 13
2 kids (special needs)
Last Dday 9/26/13 EA w/ 19 yr old OW, too many prior EAs to list, one he kissed
Divorcing
My value hasn't decreased based on his inability to see my worth.

Posts: 38 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United States
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