Topic: I am officially divorced as of today!!!!!!!!!!!!
Member # 18334
| Posted: 7:40 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
Posts: 4488 | Registered: Feb 2008
Member # 34484
| Posted: 7:41 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
BS - Me, 41 SAHM back in grad school
WS - Husband, 43 SA dx in March 2013
T-20, M-18 college sweethearts
Multiple DDays since 1999 - OW's all the way back to engagement
Most recent DDay 8-12,false R 1/13
DD-11, DS 13 with ASD
Posts: 776 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Virginia
Member # 29410
| Posted: 7:46 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
Sooooooo glad to read this this morning, Nature_Girl!! Enjoy that delicious feeling of freedom! I love that image of you and the kids hootin' and hollerin'!!! They know it's been tough and they love you!
Even if he still is a butt-head, at least now you have this HUGE distance between you! You fought and you got it! You earned this!!!! You have accomplished a great thing for yourself and your sweet babies.
Enjoy!!!! Love, love, LOVE it!!!
Posts: 1049 | Registered: Aug 2010
Member # 33882
| Posted: 7:57 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
Well HOT DAMN!!!! Congratulations!!!!!!!
him (NPD Ex)
"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."
Posts: 2490 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
Member # 21101
| Posted: 8:41 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
Free at last,
Free At Last,
Thank God Almighty
FREE AT LAST!!!!!
Congrats honey, you will enjoy your new found independence, and show the world how totally awesome you are!!!!
Kids: 14 & 16
Married for 21 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy
Posts: 6544 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Member # 38122
| Posted: 9:04 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
I'm so happy for you NG. It must be such a relief to have that arsehole-amputation over and done with.
Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 10 and 13
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous
Posts: 1344 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Member # 37898
| Posted: 9:08 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
Congratulations, NG, and thank you for all the support you have offered to me.
I wish you the best in your true new beginning and path to full healing.
Divorced April Fool's Day 2014
Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
Posts: 1449 | Registered: Dec 2012
Member # 32258
| Posted: 9:11 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
BH = Me
STBXWW = Her
The first true sense of calm I felt in YEARS was when I filed for D...
Separated 6/2013, D official around 6/2014
Posts: 1566 | Registered: May 2011
Member # 33735
| Posted: 9:49 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."
Posts: 952 | Registered: Oct 2011
Member # 30086
| Posted: 10:04 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
Congrats NG. Seriously, it's been a long road for you.
Me - BW (38) Him (calcitro) - SAWH (38)
2 Kids Working on R
DDay#1 - 11/9/10 - 2 year EA/PA
DDay #2 - 12/9/10
Disclosure - 4/8/11
Timeline - 5/9/11
Posts: 492 | Registered: Nov 2010
Member # 30826
| Posted: 10:13 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
M: June 2001
Status: R? I don't know..ask me tomorrow..it changes rapidly.
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
Posts: 6623 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
Member # 32962
| Posted: 10:44 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004
Posts: 780 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 34533
| Posted: 11:09 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
Best new life for you and the kids!
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen
Posts: 589 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
Member # 25395
| Posted: 11:19 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
Wow, so happy for you and your kids! Congrats!
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 13 years.
Posts: 1620 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: not toronto anymore
Member # 15088
| Posted: 11:28 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
~Feel your emotions, but control your behavior~ Unknown
Posts: 2160 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Oregon
Member # 35229
| Posted: 12:09 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
I really need an applause emoticon right about now.
Sending all of the love and strength I can muster to Phoenix1 and her family.
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."
Posts: 4507 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 33523
| Posted: 2:25 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd; free of the overgrown baby
Everything is as it should be.
Posts: 625 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
Member # 36099
| Posted: 7:25 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
I'm so happy for you! Congratulations!!!!!
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 34 years; Sept 2012
Together 37 years
He doesn't want R.
In hindsight neither do I. For me adultery is a deal breaker!
4 adult DD's, 1 SIL, 3 grandchildren
Posts: 278 | Registered: Jul 2012
Member # 14917
| Posted: 7:59 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17
Posts: 1276 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Massachusetts
Member # 36559
| Posted: 9:04 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
I've made a huge mistake - GOB
Posts: 70 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: missmydogs
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