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User Topic: I am officially divorced as of today!!!!!!!!!!!!
peridot
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Default  Posted: 7:40 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY!!!!!!!!!


Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


Posts: 4788 | Registered: Feb 2008
Issaquah
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Default  Posted: 7:41 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats NG!!!!


BS - Me, 41 SAHM back in grad school
WS - Husband, 43 SA dx in March 2013
T-20, M-18 college sweethearts
Multiple DDays since 1999 - OW's all the way back to engagement
Most recent DDay 8-12,false R 1/13
DD-11, DS 13 with ASD

Posts: 779 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Virginia
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Default  Posted: 7:46 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sooooooo glad to read this this morning, Nature_Girl!! Enjoy that delicious feeling of freedom! I love that image of you and the kids hootin' and hollerin'!!! They know it's been tough and they love you!

Even if he still is a butt-head, at least now you have this HUGE distance between you! You fought and you got it! You earned this!!!! You have accomplished a great thing for yourself and your sweet babies.

Enjoy!!!! Love, love, LOVE it!!!


Posts: 1275 | Registered: Aug 2010
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 7:57 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well HOT DAMN!!!! Congratulations!!!!!!!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2601 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:41 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Free at last,
Free At Last,
Thank God Almighty
NG is
FREE AT LAST!!!!!

Congrats honey, you will enjoy your new found independence, and show the world how totally awesome you are!!!!


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8717 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Pass
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Default  Posted: 9:04 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so happy for you NG. It must be such a relief to have that arsehole-amputation over and done with.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 2110 | Registered: Jan 2013
Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations, NG, and thank you for all the support you have offered to me.

I wish you the best in your true new beginning and path to full healing.


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1627 | Registered: Dec 2012
7yrsflushed
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Default  Posted: 9:11 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!!


D-day 5/24/11
BH = Me
2 children
The first true sense of calm I felt in YEARS was when I filed for D...
Divorced 9/2/14 and loving life!

Posts: 1912 | Registered: May 2011 | From: VA
macakipa
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Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woot! Woot!


M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

Posts: 952 | Registered: Oct 2011
KickedintheGut
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Default  Posted: 10:04 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats NG. Seriously, it's been a long road for you.


Me - BW (38) Him (calcitro) - SAWH (38)
2 Kids Working on R
DDay#1 - 11/9/10 - 2 year EA/PA
DDay #2 - 12/9/10
Disclosure - 4/8/11
Timeline - 5/9/11

Posts: 492 | Registered: Nov 2010
confused615
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Default  Posted: 10:13 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WOOOOHOOOOO!!!!


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciling?

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7694 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
debbysbaby
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Default  Posted: 10:44 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hoooooraaaaaay!


-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004

Posts: 880 | Registered: Aug 2011
Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 11:09 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats NG,

Best new life for you and the kids!


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 785 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
lost_in_toronto
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Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, so happy for you and your kids! Congrats!


Me: BS/39
Him: WS/37
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 14 years.
Reconciled.

Posts: 1678 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: not toronto anymore
LisaP
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Default  Posted: 11:28 AM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me BS

Divorced!

~Feel your emotions, but control your behavior~ Unknown


Posts: 2190 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Oregon
SBB
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Default  Posted: 12:09 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I really need an applause emoticon right about now.

Congratulations NG!!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5609 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
-----------------------------------------------------------
Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 766 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
Elaine2012
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Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so happy for you! Congratulations!!!!!


Me- 53
WH- 57
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 2 SIL, 3 grandchildren

Posts: 287 | Registered: Jul 2012
rainagain
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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

Posts: 1298 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Massachusetts
missmydogs
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY!!! Congrats!!!


Me 36
DS 16
DD 4

Divorced!

I've made a huge mistake - GOB


Posts: 71 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: missmydogs
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