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User Topic: I am officially divorced as of today!!!!!!!!!!!!
roughroadahead
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Default  Posted: 9:21 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's amazing, congratualtions!

Like others have said, your ex was particularly nasty. Relish your freedom, you deserve it!


BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism

Posts: 728 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: USA
Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 9:42 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holy shit!!!

You, I think, are the one that deserves this the most.
I'm so, so, so happy for you and your kids!!!


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
WS: Him 49 (Together 12 years)
D-Day April 18, 2011, Him:out Sept. 11, 2011..moved June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1364 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
Reality
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((holds up lighter!))

Congrats, NG! I wish there was some massive "Achievement Unlocked!" banner once a divorce from a really bad situation was finally solidified.


Posts: 292 | Registered: Apr 2013
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 5:26 AM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1321 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 7:41 AM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! That's great news!

Posts: 1656 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
torn2bits
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Default  Posted: 2:41 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sooo happy for you NG! I wish you and your children great happiness, health and healing!

Congratulations!


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
SerJR
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Default  Posted: 4:21 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome to your future.


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17093 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South
keptmyword
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's great news, Nature_Girl.

I hope you and your children are able to have a wonderful new life.


I Divorced Her.

Posts: 362 | Registered: May 2012
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats NG!!!! I can't wait to hear how exciting and prosperous your new life turns out. I'm having a drink and toasting your good news. Cheers!


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 734 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 10:46 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!!!!


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life. ~ JK Rowling


Posts: 749 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
numbandnauseous
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Default  Posted: 12:09 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My jaw dropped when I saw your topic title.

That is FANFUCKINGTABULOUS!!!!!!

Raising a glass to your well-earned new beginning....

You and your children have a great life ahead of you....

(((((((((((NG and kids))))))))))))))) (celebratory hugs!)


BS (me) - 41
WH - 48, EA with HS GF x 2
M: 10 years, T: 20
2 small children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
Divorcing

Posts: 827 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: the other side
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank goodness!


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 3727 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations NG. This was so long in coming. I'm glad it's finally behind you.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3406 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
ChoosingHope
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Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NG, just must comment and laugh that only YOU could get 92 congrats on your divorce!

Onwards and upwards!
-Hope


Posts: 1667 | Registered: Oct 2011
CheaterMagnet
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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!

Doing the happy dance for you!!!!!!!

FUCK. THAT. GUY!!!!!

NG is FREEEEEEEEEEE!!!!

WhOOP!


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1023 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
npain
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Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, November 8th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY!!!!!!

Things can ONLY get better from here!


S,beginning D

Posts: 508 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: New York
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY!!!!!! Expect the MF to try to bring you down, but it will only be a temp thing. Every time XWH tries to antagonize me, I go on facebook and proclaim how happy I am and good my life is...

He has basically slinked into the past, now!!!!


CHEERS TO YOU!!!!


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 2062 | Registered: Jan 2012
AimfortheHeart
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Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news, NG!! Congratulations!


Me - BS 63
Him - SAWH 61
D-day #1 8/22/12
D-day #2 11/3/13
D-day #3 12/15/13

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