Topic: I am officially divorced as of today!!!!!!!!!!!!
Member # 36060
| Posted: 9:21 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
That's amazing, congratualtions!
Like others have said, your ex was particularly nasty. Relish your freedom, you deserve it!
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
2 DS and DD all w/autism
Posts: 707 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: USA
Member # 32789
| Posted: 9:42 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
You, I think, are the one that deserves this the most.
I'm so, so, so happy for you and your kids!!!
BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(9)
WS: Him 49 (X...together 12 years)
D-Day April 18, 2011, he moved out Sept. 11, 2011...
They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder
I'm finding that I am growing more and more fond of his absence.
Posts: 1224 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
Member # 39077
| Posted: 9:52 PM, November 5th (Tuesday), 2013|
((holds up lighter!))
Congrats, NG! I wish there was some massive "Achievement Unlocked!" banner once a divorce from a really bad situation was finally solidified.
Posts: 289 | Registered: Apr 2013
Member # 36445
| Posted: 5:26 AM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013|
"You can never have too much happy!"
Posts: 1151 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 36697
| Posted: 7:41 AM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013|
Congratulations! That's great news!
Posts: 1323 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Arizona
Member # 28376
| Posted: 2:41 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013|
I am sooo happy for you NG! I wish you and your children great happiness, health and healing!
Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending
Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
Member # 14993
| Posted: 4:21 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013|
Welcome to your future.
Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.
Posts: 17093 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South
Member # 35526
| Posted: 8:42 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013|
That's great news, Nature_Girl.
I hope you and your children are able to have a wonderful new life.
Posts: 350 | Registered: May 2012
Member # 39885
| Posted: 8:50 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013|
Congrats NG!!!! I can't wait to hear how exciting and prosperous your new life turns out. I'm having a drink and toasting your good news. Cheers!
D Day: 6/13/13
Moving on. Every Single Day.
Posts: 490 | Registered: Jul 2013
Member # 39193
| Posted: 10:46 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013|
Me: BS, 45 Him: XWH, 45
Together 8 yrs, married for 5
DDay 04.10.13 Divorced 05.14.13
Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life. ~ JK Rowling
Posts: 567 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
Member # 34525
| Posted: 12:09 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013|
My jaw dropped when I saw your topic title.
That is FANFUCKINGTABULOUS!!!!!!
Raising a glass to your well-earned new beginning....
You and your children have a great life ahead of you....
(((((((((((NG and kids))))))))))))))) (celebratory hugs!)
BS (me) - 41
WH - 48, EA with HS GF x 2
M: 10 years, T: 20
2 small children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
Posts: 827 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: the other side
Member # 35619
| Posted: 3:03 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013|
D final 8/2012
Posts: 3365 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
Member # 33699
| Posted: 5:58 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013|
Congratulations NG. This was so long in coming. I'm glad it's finally behind you.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
Posts: 3078 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Member # 33606
| Posted: 8:26 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013|
NG, just must comment and laugh that only YOU could get 92 congrats on your divorce!
Onwards and upwards!
Posts: 1433 | Registered: Oct 2011
Member # 33581
| Posted: 8:45 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013|
Doing the happy dance for you!!!!!!!
FUCK. THAT. GUY!!!!!
NG is FREEEEEEEEEEE!!!!
If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5
Posts: 916 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
Member # 33539
| Posted: 12:08 PM, November 8th (Friday), 2013|
Things can ONLY get better from here!
Posts: 507 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: New York
Member # 34678
| Posted: 8:09 AM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013|
YAY!!!!!! Expect the MF to try to bring you down, but it will only be a temp thing. Every time XWH tries to antagonize me, I go on facebook and proclaim how happy I am and good my life is...
He has basically slinked into the past, now!!!!
CHEERS TO YOU!!!!
me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Posts: 1713 | Registered: Jan 2012
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Member # 37195
| Posted: 11:43 AM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013|
Great news, NG!! Congratulations!
Me - BS 63
Him - SAWH 61
D-day #1 8/22/12
D-day #2 11/3/13
D-day #3 12/15/13
Posts: 25 | Registered: Oct 2012
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