I had a conversation with a friend who was recently screwed over by her H. We seem to be on the same page that we want to kick our cheating, lying husbands out so they can see what exactly they are losing and punish them but ultimately(being honest with ourselves) we want to have them back in the end.
Is this normal? Is this part of the process of dragging out a broken relationship? Both men seem to think that they did it, it's over, they are moving on, so we women should move on. They tip toe around the subject.
Why do we mentally torture ourselves like this? Are we just prolonging an inevitable split? I'm so confused and fucking yoga at work isn't helping!Me 41
Married 11...he forgot our anniversary
Together 17 years
Two great kids.
He doesn't get it. Moving us to his hometown with his toxic mother is going to be the end of us.